If a guy is 21 or older, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, always been single, should he give up?

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I am 21 years old, I just turned 21 at the beginning of this year in January, I have always been single, still a virgin, never had a girlfriend. Every girl that I have pursued, talked to and made the move one, were either taken or not interested in me.

Also I feel it is too late for me to have a girlfriend, the reason why is because I did not have one earlier, like in the teenage years, during high school, etc. Also people who continue to date and be in relationships, that have a boyfriend/girlfriend when they are 21 and older, in their 30's and beyond, are people who have been in relationships, had their first boyfriend/girlfriend before the age 21, in high school, in the teenage years.

Also another reason is because I am going to have to work harder to get a girlfriend as I get older, because it gets harder for guys as they get older, because the older a guy gets, the more independent he is expected to be, he is expected to have a job, have his own apartment or house, paying the bills, etc., overall, not living or relying on his parents anymore. Anyway, I am 21, I still live with my parents, unemployed but I am looking for a job right now but it is very tough because of the horrible Economy. Also I am still going to school, looking to get a Bachelor's degree in Biology and Film Production.

So should I give up and realize it is too late? C'mon, since I have never had a girlfriend, it is going to be much harder for me now since I am inexperienced and I am getting old.

Also another reason why I don't want to have my first girlfriend when I get old is because when I reach my 30's and beyond, I am still going to be attracted to women that are like 10 years younger than me, like I am always going to be attracted to women in their 20's, that is how it is for normal men. I like to keep a 2 to 3 year difference. I don't want to date a woman that is very much younger than me.
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+1 y
C'mon, 21 is too old for not dating anyone yet, so why should I start now or later if I did not in the past? Don't girls want a guy with experience? I guess I should become a 40-year old virgin and not care about it.
+1 y
Plus like I said, it's going to be harder for a guy if he has no experience and he is expected to live on his own, have his own place, like a girl will not want to date or sleep with a guy if he still lives with his parents.
+1 y
Girls have it easier because they don't have to be independent, like have their own place, girls can live with their parents for as long as they want but it will not turn guys off.
+1 y
Us guys have it harder remember, because we have to take the initiative, we have to initiate the date and relationship, such as asking the girl out, making all the moves, saying the right things in order to get to know her, etc.
+1 y
Seriously, girls have it so much easier when it comes to dating and relationships, the girl just has to approve of it.
+1 y
I was wondering if I should commit suicide.
+1 y
Girls have it so much easier.
+1 y
Seriously, why does the guy have to initiate everything? who started that tradition or made it the social norm that the guy has to pursue the girl and ask her out?
+1 y
Seriously, who invented or started the tradition, social norm, who made it the status quo that the guy have to court the girl, ask her out, and initiate the date and relationship? WHO!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
+1 y
I don't think every guy was meant to have a girlfriend.
+1 y
I do not believe in the saying there is someone out there for everyone

+1 y
Since I have Asperger Syndrome, that means it is impossible for me.
+1 y
So should I just throw in the towel? Seriously, I don't think I am ever going to get any better.
+1 y
Asperger Syndrome makes it too difficult since I have horrible social skills.
+1 y
I feel like giving up.
If a guy is 21 or older, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, always been single, should he give up?
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