I’m person 1 he’s person 2
We want for a walk, it got cold & I didn’t want to go anywhere that costs anything so we went to his place and Listened to his collection of Ukrainian folk music on records which was cool I already knew bc we talked about It in the library.
We were there for a few hours then it got quiet And when I felt like he was gonna kiss me I said:
1 you can’t kiss me 🚫
2 uhh ok 😐
2…. for the record you have permission to kiss me 😉
So we both laughed. (Then I was going to try to explain my situation but I couldn’t sort it out so just showed him the post)
1 I was having difficulty sorting the situation out ethically and I asked people did advice bc I didn’t want to do the wrong & I have such little experience and strong tendency to avoid doing anything and so I don’t feel like I was able to rely on my own wisdom even tho I think generally, im fairly wise relatively. I asked for advice bc I didn’t want to treat anyone Badly.
(He was a bit surprised how he ended up coming off to me tho & hasn’t considered how odd it might come off to me bc he’s dated a lot of people and it’s sort of normal to him to talk about stuff but he also wasn’t always in the U S so I don't know maybe it’s diff other places)
2 🤔 You don’t seem flirty or anything kinda opposite really , so I didn’t think you were into me -or I thought you were very shy or conservative so I wasn’t expecting you to ask me out and then I guess I just assumed you were more experienced bc you asked me out... if I had known you are not really used to dating I probably would’ve approached things differently… I’m just used to sort of presenting myself as is, & whatever Happens happens
(He doesn’t mind if I give an update lol as long as no one knows him and don’t use his name he find this seeing other people thoughts amusing I guess)
So then I was silent, absorbing things and I felt a bit awkward bc it’s just normal to him so it must look crazy to him that I was concerned.
CONTINUED*
FIVE parts to this discussion & I can only post the 2 as I’ve done. I have to wait at least 4 hours to post the next. Then 5 for the subsequent post. A few more hours after that for the last part.
🤔 I suppose I could have used the updates as extra space but honestly I dislike doing that.
There is more left than has already been posted, So messy. So your opinion may change or not by midnight. 🙃
Thank you so much for your opinions. 🙏🏼
There are FIVE parts in all. The above is the FIRST post. The link below is the SECOND post. There are THREE MORE parts. I can not send the rest until two unrelated posts have passed the 24 hour period. The rest will be sent so about three hours.
To keep it simple, I will not be checking opinions until ALL POSTS have been sent.
I’m asking out of curiosity only. 😊
Do you think he was being honest on our second date (part 2)? ↗
