Polls: Dating

I have took suggestions from people in general to improve what ever shortcomings I do have over the years and tried my best to overcome them but all every woman with whom I made an effort turned me down but most women don't even allow me to make an attempt that will keep there distance or cut short the conversations with me.

At this point I am 28 and considering going Gay, us this a terrible idea? Considering I am Indian?

Never dated a white woman before but just heard stories…
Also, talked with a few on here that seemed very confrontational.

If a guy who has really dense coarse chest and abdomen hair chooses to closely trim them... to look neat and presentable

You could clearly see it's left over stubble and can feel it too...

Does it still bother you and it might look neat but is still bad to touch and hence sexually repulsive?

I used to dabble a bit in drinking when I'd first moved from Connecticut to Texas although I did sip some alcohol back in Connecticut when my parents weren't home, and it was absolutely disgusting and my curiosity on it died right there.

My parents haven't had a good relationship, they're never really happy together and their arguments escalate into fights when, surprise surprise, they get drunk!

They keep vodka and gold tequila around but they drink Miller lite the most by a very wide margin. No exaggeration when I say that the night after they drink, there are cans everywhere and the garbage can is full of beer cans.

I got my toes wet a little more after I got my second job after leaving my first due to not enough hours and me wanting to deliver food instead of just making it. Don't worry, I never and I mean NEVER went near a wheel after having even the tiniest drop of alcohol but after work, I did drink sometimes.

In the past two years, I've stayed away completely from alcohol as the taste is abhorrent in all alcohols, it's just different levels of disgusting for each of them. It's extremely hard for me to get drunk and even then, any feeling of excitement wears off after 5 minutes.

After researching as well the impact that alcohol has on relationships, marriage and work, I've concluded that it's best to stay away from alcohol. Although I could've guess that impaired judgement leads to bad decisions.

I've seen the decay of a marriage that came from two narcissistic children trapped in the bodies of adults and that's certainly not what I want for me and my girlfriend who i hope to marry once me and her begin our careers and become financially stable. But thanks to healthcare costs for me due to a condition I have being at an average of $2,000 per month, I'll need to start my career before I can afford to live on my own.

Is that an attractive trait for a love partner to you?🤔

So initially you were interested in this person but for whatever reason you lost it and now want to end things/stop dating. Which are you more likely to do in this scenario?

So you were never quite officially a couple yet but were talking quite extensively and often intimately. And now youjust no onger feel the spark anymore.

It’s because since she really likes me more than her baby daddy then that means she made an exception for me and won’t make an exception for another guy to cheat on then?