Is it ok to reject a girl just because she's having dark skin than expected?

[insteadfew]

if the guy and girl have seen eachother in pics and when they meet he notices she's darker than what she looked ik pictures and online... especially her legs and hands are quite dark than what they looked in pics and darker than her face.

She is what he is looking for in a girl in every other way...

Then?

He should reject her since he's not feeling attracted towards her because of her dark skin

He is really stupid to reject her simply because of being darker than expected.. if she's fine in other ways

Other thoughts

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He's worried if he'd be attracted enough to be sexually attracted to her when she's naked and what would society say about his choice

[Prettygurl12]

Unpopular opinion:

A person may set whichever metrics they want to include/exclude potential romantic partners, but they then must be content with how they have limited their options.

You cannot simultaneously set standards that limit the potential dating pool to 5% of the world's population and then also complain that you can't find a date.

If you're a heterosexual male then you've limited your dating pool to 51% of the world's population. No big deal. Now, let's say you select a socially acceptable age range and physical distance. Again, no issues. But now you're setting specific physical traits - hair color, skin tone, eye color, height, weight, etc. You need to be aware of, and content with, the fact that you're removing a plethora of otherwise viable mates. But if you're good with that, then that's all that matters.

Do I think a person's skin tone is a good reason to write them off? No, but if you're content with doing so, and recognize that you're your own obstacle to finding a partner then... you do you.

[Missgingles]

People are attracted to what they are attracted to. But this person wanted to meet her and was really attracted to her but because of her hands he throws it all away. That's dumb in my eyes. But to each and their own:)

[insteadfew]

They know eachother online but not for very long. She told him she's dark.. and he was ok with it , bit when he meets he noticed her hands and legs are quite dark than expected and darker than her face.

[Missgingles]

I think its dumb but it shouldn't matter what people think. Most of society will problaby see it as racist but people choose what they want.

[OlderAndWiser]

Attraction can develop over time. Give it a chance.

[Rania05]

'Worried about what society thinks about his choice's This was the stupidest of all thing you listed in your question.

Excuse me, but is society your third parent? Even biological parents shouldn't have much say in what they what their son/daughter-in-law to be.

There's no way a person's every move would satisfy society all his life.

Does he think dark skin = inferior species

He's just attracted to a woman but be had the nerve to hesitate to admit it because of her physical trait that's barely noticeable and isn't even a disability?

He better leave the girl alone from now, if they got together and break up she'd probably be left with doubts over her attractiveness because of his inadvertently shown views.

[Jenny-Marie]

Skin colour shouldn't be a problem, it's the personality that matters. We should embrace differences, not reject them. In fact, if ½ dozen girls were lined up in front of me and I was told to choose one, I would checkout their eyes, smile and hair. Skin colour would just be accepted whether black, medium, white or anything in between. I've known lovely and nasty people of all persuasions.

[ALPHABLACK]

Skin color don't matter

People do, a very white and glass skin model can be real evil so that version of fair skin don't fit my preference

[jshm2]

Eh... you are aware skin tans in sunlight, right?

Be a fucking adult and speak to her and see if she compatible to be a partner.

[TroyDT]

I wouldn't, but the preferences of others, no matter how silly they seem to me, are not my concern.

[clampfan101]

Not unless she was catfishing.
At least give the girl a chance.