Polls: Dating

I'm curious because a lot of girls say that Black and Spanish guys have big butts. Does it apply to Indians too?

Please don't answer based on stereotypes, but instead on what you really think.

When I was a younger man, I frequently said that if I was not initially attracted to a woman, it would probably never happen and there was no sense in wasting time pursuing her as a romantic partner. That statement was true. It never did happen - not when I was younger - perhaps because I never gave an "unattractive" (unattractive to me) woman a chance.

In 2015, I started dating a woman who was a good match for me in many ways. She was a retired judge, obviously bright and articulate, and we had many other common interests. She also fit the "type" of woman who I usually pursue. She is petite, has dainty features, and she enjoys physical affection. I was very quickly attracted to her. We eventually had a sexual relationship that was very satisfying for both of us, but I broke up with her because she never fell in love with me as I fell for her.

Looking back on that relationship, I don't know why I was physically attracted to her. Most guys who met her would probably rate her as a 3/10, and so would I, but when I was dating her, I thought she was a 7/10 or 8/10. Maybe the years and experiences have changed me, or maybe I just developed the attraction because I gave her a chance.

Have you ever had that experience?

I’m 27 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, I have had sex one time and made it to having oral sex with another girl, but that’s it. I’ve also only ever been on one date so I’m still pretty inexperienced. What’s holding me back is that I feel like I’m stuck in a very bad situation where no girls are gonna date me because I have so little experience for my age, and that most would rather be with a guy who has more experience and had a better idea of what he’s doing, both in the bedroom and with leading a relationship. I just feel like things get a lot worse once you get older and still have no experience, so I was wondering how many guys have been rejected specifically for being inexperienced.

Being cute

If circumstances change? Like if the guy she rejected lost weight, or change his hair/clothes style, that she’s start to see him in a different way?, what about as girls age realise that they’re not as desirable as they once were so they lower their standards? (Not that is except being their backup)

What about if a guy changed his attitude on life and be some more interesting/funny and confident? Is it at all possible?