Have you noticed it’s always men’s fault?

[Anonymous]

I could be biased. I never hear anything good about men all I hear about men is:

Being bad in bed, having an ego. Cheating, being immature. A woman cheating because it’s the man’s fault. All forms of abuse carried out by men. Men tend to be the scary psychos. Men are creepy/predators. Hit on too many women. We just want sex.
If a man is single - (what a loser Incel). Virgin man - undesirable. If he can get girls that determines his value and credibility as a man (that’s one thing).

I’m not crying but I do find it upsetting. Are men good at anything or are we a waste of space?

I’ve noticed this

I’ve not

I disagree with this

[btbc92]

While there is some truth to it there is a reason for it and I would have to disagree with it on certain levels. And I will explain why. God called men to be the leader, the head, the one most responsible and made a man first before a woman. Now if I was to explain about what examples your giving, and thank you for explaining, I'll show you where you as a person are going wrong with this, where I was a woman had to learn for myself.

"Being bad in bed" That is not your responsibility. Nor it is a woman's responsibility. This is why you don't have sex before marriage. And with multiple people and partners. Porn and masturbation. Because when you're a virgin, you don't KNOW what is so-called good or bad. Because it's on you. Sex is a part of you and that other person. So if you are bad in bed, it is not because of you. It's because the person was never satisfied sexually except for whom they had sex with from the very first time they lost their virginity and those who had similar experiences sexually if not the size of their penis. A virgin wouldn't know unless they had sex toys. But then they're not virgins anymore.

"having an ego." Ask yourself this question. What normal person requests that a man have an ego?

"Cheating, being immature." Same question applis. What normal person requests that you be a cheater or immature?

"A woman cheating because it’s the man’s fault." Cheating is never the answer. The bible talks about not sexually deriving your spouses because it can potentially lead to adultery. But it is still a choice for a person to cheat as it is to have sex. So it's much deeper than that. It is a time for understanding not condemning the other. A safe place for love, not bitterness and hate. That is what marriage is supposed to be.

"All forms of abuse carried out by men." Women abuse too. Pretty much everybody did at some point. But we all have to learn from it and it is never an excuse. Men are not supposed to hit a woman. But it doesn't give women the right to hit either. None.

"Men tend to be the scary psychos. Men are creepy/predators. Hit on too many women." But men do this because most of you can't control yourselves. I've seen them, dealt with them. And had dealt with stalkers on here too. Look at many men who are on here talking about sleeping with 16-year-olds! No MORALS. Many got away with it here, and it is sad nobody reports these things. Heck, even some women are guilty. But many men do this.

[btbc92]

"We just want sex." But here is what you don't understand about this. It's not "just". You do. Because if sex was never offered then you wouldn't bother with a woman. I believe in waiting for marriage to have sex, I get told that I don't deserve to be married and with a man because I wouldn't put out. The women who do are used for sex, now they use men for sex. Then women stop having sex, and they reject you for sex. Why do you think that is? Because of no self-control. You look at other women. You call it normal. You sexualize the woman you with, if she doesn't like it, you think something is wrong with her. Again, granted there are plenty of women who do the same now. Back in Biblical times, it was not like that, and women who do were very rare, but they always had hidden intent. It's one thing to be sexual in nature, as we are as human beings. But some are born more sexual than others. It should be a time of intimacy to cherish not exploit.

"If a man is single - (what a loser Incel)." Just like for women, not all men are losers. There is no such thing as an Incel. Celibacy is a choice. Whether you settle or not, it is still a choice. So if a not so attractive girl to you wanted you, but you didn't, that was your chance. So what does that say? Choices. I'm celibate. That was my choice. Just because it was hard for me to find a suitable partner. I don't blame guys for not picking me.

[btbc92]

"Virgin man - undesirable. If he can get girls that determines his value and credibility as a man (that’s one thing)." Let me tell you something. Better a virgin than not at all. But if your not a stable person, you wouldn't be desirable anyway. Just that these women want sex and use you for sex for their own pleasure. That has nothing to do with your value. But the sexual experience she gets to enjoy while not caring about you. It doesn't say if you're a man or not.

"I’m not crying but I do find it upsetting. Are men good at anything or are we a waste of space?" Don't think that way. Your human too, and you are entitled to how you feel. You're a victim of society like all of us and you are expressing how you feel. It's what you choose to do with it that may cause problems. But you're not directly the issue.

[Hannah_le]

Mm i disagree because i see both ways and both genders would or would not take accountable for what they’ve done or smth and point fingers. It Just depends on the person.

[HikerDude]

Yeah, men have a higher opinion of women than women have of men. No question about that. The real question is, why? I think the big issue is entitlement in a lot of women. They feel disappointed in life in general and me in specific because they feel they should have gotten better than they have. They bought into the fairy tale that every girl deserves only the highest quality men and the very best that life has to offer.

[_no_one_]

Yes men is bad 🤡
Might cut my dick off and live on streets cuz i wasn't a good-looking, socially active, chad boy.

[DesolateRain]

Here's what I think:


Men blame women for everything

Women blame men for everything

Nobody ever wants to take accountability for a damn thing and it seems point fingers is always the solution.

[SupStepBro]

Some truth to what you're saying but both genders get generalized slander