Polls: Dating

I was just thinking about this...

I can see why women would think that men have become more cowardly, because so many men today are spineless -- just want sex, don't want to risk a relationship, don't want to bother asking a girl out, etc.

But I also see women being a lot more cowardly than ever before. I give an analogy to dancing...

In dancing, the man commonly takes the lead but the woman also actively follows. She's not passive. She anticipates what comes next, so she is ready. For dancing to work, both people have to take it seriously.

But today, when it comes to dating, flirting and relationships, women understand that men are supposed to take the lead. But what they don't understand is that they also have an important role...

They think that it's OK to just stand in the background, and let the man dance by himself...like he's putting on a show for them. They think that it's enough to just stand still and occasionally clap to give encouragement or look the other way to show boredom, but not really participate.

So who is has become worse...men or women?

I know most people say "I don't think he cares about himself blah blah blah" but I'm just wondering if any girls actually would give the guy a chance. He may have an amazing personality you know. I understand if you find it just disgusting. I don't see why you wouldn't.

I am an obese guy and I want to lose weight but I can't stand exercise and the horrible feeling I get from it. So I'm worried I'm destined to be alone.

OK, I am going on a first date with this girl and I cannot decide!

Facial hair or no facial hair?

What do most girls like on their man, nice and smooth or rugged?

Please give your opinion and explain...

I'm enlisting in the U.S. Army in a few months, and I'm curious if it is a positive thing to girls or not.

Obviously it comes with both good and bad so I'll break it down into pros and cons as I see it.

Pros: steady job, the uniform, always in good shape, sense of duty and honor, opportunities for advancement.

Cons: gone a long time, danger of death or being crippled, stress from line of work, long distance relationship.

So that being said, do the pros out weigh the cons? Or is there too much commitment to date a guy who is going to spend as much as a year at a time on the opposite end of the planet getting shot at?

So every time I go out with a girl on a date (1st date), at the end of the night after we part ways about 10 minutes later I'll text the girl and say "I had a good time, would you like to see me again?".

My question is, is it ok/should I say/ask that, or just part ways after having a good time, go home and contact her sometime the next day?

I'm confused because I've asked this question to some of my friends and half of them say don't say anything and half say it's ok to text and say/ask. I'm confused. =(

I was watching tv this morning and a debate was whether you girls would ever date an "ugly" guy? Now I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder, basically what one person deems ugly another may find attractive. I know looks ain't everything and I would never judge someone on their looks, its what's inside that matters. However physical attraction can be seen somewhat important to a certain degree. Men are deemed to be more shallow than women, however the guy at the centre of this morning's debate disagrees and thinks women are more shallow these days.

The question I wanna ask you girls is would you date an ugly guy? Imagine he has a great personality and can make laugh, was a lovely guy however he just completely lacks in the looks department. A yes or no answer please, you may put a reason by it if you wish. Thanks.