Polls: Dating

When I say people have a Superiority Complex usually are goal oriented , only looks out for themselves for the most part , never seem weak, quick to point out other peoples flaws and mistakes, etc etc.

I know a few people who do have a superiority complex and they have relationships, some of them are rocky but I can only imagine they will be handful to date.

So, have you ever dated someone like that? Do you feel like You're like that and if so, what do you recommend to your future lovers?

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1.I think not dating in your looks class, upsets the balance of what other guys can obtain in the meat market. Every average girl taken by a better-looking guy is one less girl available to the average guys.

2.It's a bad influence on other women. Other girls looking at couples like that might think " Well if she could get a hot guy surely I could too" even if they themselves aren't all that .

3. Relationship like that usually do not last long but they happen Because men are not picky for short term. When ( not if )guy dumps the girl she is already delude about her own level of attractiveness " I dated hot guy so I must be hot as well " And she won't give a chance to a guy on her looks level.

I think we as a society would be better off if good looking men were in long term relationships with hot women rather then having series of flings with plain Janes .

As I see it, online dating is pointless for almost all straight men. Why?

1. Women are suspicious of single guys anyway: "Why is he single? What's wrong with him?" A guy who is so single that he needs to resort to online dating must be a loser: that's how women see it.

2. Women get far more 'approaches' online than offline. Even a below-average woman would be difficult for a guy, of whatever quality, to get online. Online, you're competing against all the usual guys, plus all the shy guys who don't approach offline.

I think the only straight man who should resort to online dating is one who looks like a supermodel (and therefore is good enough to overcome problem one and problem two) but who isn't charming (and therefore isn't successful with offline approaches).

Yesterday I went on a date. I went for a kiss 3 times and 3 times I got rejected. She looked interested in me and was also flirty. Our date was 2.5 hours.

I'll try to arrange another date.

Im persistent and confident in everything I do.

I don't know about you all, but it really irks me when I see 2 teenagers neck deep in a relationship. I understand that some married couples were high school sweethearts (which is actually pretty sweet), but people often neglect the high school relationships that didn't work out. I read somewhere that the percentage of high school lovers getting married is around 1-2%. and the percentage that stick together is even lower, which leads me to ask... Is teenage dating overrated? So often, our social status in adolescence is dictated by our ability to be in a relationship and that leads to many psychological issues that we run into today. To me, I think dating is a tremendous waste of time, especially in your adolescent years. It consumes money, energy, but most importantly time. The young mind is so receptive to new information. Why spend it all learning about one single person?

Perhaps I sound bitter in this question but this is actually an observation I've made based on my own self. I dated a girl in high school, and I did not get very much out of it. Yes, I gained some experience into how dating should be, but that is something that I could have learned as I become older. I suppose the message that I am trying to convey is that one should postpone the instant gratification of an immediate relationship for a more meaningful one in the future. All of that free time could be spent getting good grades, making new friends, or developing a new skill. Not only will these things boost your self-esteem, it will make you a more appealing bachelor or bacherlorette. Your happiness and identity should not be solely dependent on a significant other. Rather, you should be in control of yourself and until you are capable of becoming independent, I do not think you are ready for a relationship. That's just my two cents. Agree or disagree, this is what I have learned and experienced.

Let's say the person is overall attractive, inside and out, to you. But they dropped out of college.

They are very intelligent and can have intellectually as well as emotionally deep conversations; but they just suck at conventional academic standards. They work (they're not a bum) and have ambitions for the future.

Would this be a deal breaker?

I tried to kiss my girlfriend after about a month of dating and I got kinda rejected she cuddled with me afterward be we didn't talk much after that and then we left. Should I ask her about it tomorrow or should I just wait a little bit and try again.

This would be our first kiss and we have been together for just under a month.

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Rank them in order of most appealing to least appealing, and feel free to put a dividing line to types you would date and the types you simply wouldn't be attracted to. (Hey, everybody has types, nothing wrong with that).

An adding a poll to see your top pick. (only 5 choices so I'll go with ones that look similar)

Looking to get opinions from both guys and girls on this. Is getting a "Good morning" text awesome or lame? Does it need a little more than just "Good morning?"

Explain why also.

Just interested in the perspective of people regarding a significant other who smokes (particularly if you are not a smoker).

So under the presumption that they have no intention on quitting soon, and smoke a moderate amount (perhaps a few a day but are not chain smokers)...

Would you consider a partner who is a smoker?