For most girls it is important to be with a guy that is taller than herself because of human nature. Since the beginning of the human specie, the man has always had to be the "Stronger" one in the relationship. Since prehistoric ages, the man has been the one that has to protect the tribe/family, go hunting for food, protect his land, etc.
Even though we have evolved and of course we are not prehistoric by any means, in our brains there's still this "protective" quality we look for in guys, its like a self-preservation gene that we have. Also for reproducing, women have always looked for the "stronger" men, because that would guarantee the survival of her offspring and herself. In some girls, this self-preservetion gene is much stronger, and this is why they will refuse by any means to date a guy who has a much smaller frame than theirs, since they won't feel protected and might not feel attracted to him. Its a unconscious thing that happens in most of girls' brains.
Of course this isn't applied to every girl. There's a bunch of girls that don't care about it, and are much more emotional than physical.
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You know, to me it's not really a big deal. But I think a bit of peer pressure could be put on a girl for being interested in a short guy. I don't get it honestly. For instance, most of the cutest of the cutest guys were pretty short and if I might comment on how cute a guy is my friends or sisters will always comment, "yeah but he's short." So the bleeping what.
I guess I'm into shortish petite guys. As long as he isn't shorter than me. And I guess I can get away with that because I'm pretty petite myself.
People like what they like and some girls aren't going to be attracted to a guy that's 5'3. Personality is great but physical attraction is necessary. I'm 4'10 and typically date guys 5'6 and up. Shorter guys just don't do it for me. Find a girl that does like you for who you are and is attracted to your height. Also, most girls don't want to date someone shorter than them so go for shorter girls.
its tough to explain why height is such an issue for some girls or something they find so attractive that being tall guys. but being short would make dating more difficult for many. I don't know why some girls would make height more important than other aspects of the guy such as personality or his genuine interest in them. but a lot of girls do like taller guys that is a fact of dating
You know, Michael Corleone isn't tall and I bet his personality would have been a big hit if he existed. I think there's a lot of good preconceived notions of short persons you could take advantage of (such as being smart and very knowledgeable). Etcetera.
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Height is somewhat important, when a tall guy hugs a short girl its like a giant blanket wrapped around u.
I'm 5'6 and my bf is 5'5 I fell for his personality- I feel loved safe and secured with him plus his eyes and smile are amazing <3
to me dating a guy that's super short would make me feel like I'm dating alil kid (sorry :/)
we all have our preference in who were attracted too and we all have different viewsheight isn't everything, but I'm going to be honest and say women want a guy who is at least an inch or two taller than them. so even though you're on the shorter side, their are girls shorter, and there are also girls who exist who don't care (just not that I know). just being honest,
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Height is somewhat important to me. I am 6'1" and most guys are around my height or fairly close to it. Not that I wouldn't go out with a shorter man, but I would think he feels weird being much shorter than me.
If i'm a great guy isn't that good enough?
Nope, height plays a huuuge role in a guy for attraction. A lot of girls love a tall man.
Do you still have a chance?
Hell yeah you still have a chance and a good one too if you're a good guy and a girl sees that. Some girls will overlook the height and go for you.I wouldn't say that height is EVERYTHING, but to me I just haven't been attracted to someone my height/shorts (but then again I'm tiny..5ft lol) I wouldn't say it's being shallow unless you someone is triply being particular. There HAS to be attraction in a relationship period.(doesn't mean you have to have a 6pack or a toned ass) If I found someone with the right personality (that's #1 towards attractive-ness?) in my book! It wouldn't matter their height!
Height isn't everything but height isn't unimportant either. I think it's a "bonus", like if you're taller it makes you more attractive
Height isn't important but sadly some girls like taller guys... And were the same height lol :D
It's just another one of those superficial things people care about. Honestly, if a girl can't get over the fact your'e not super tall, she's not good enough. Find someone who loves you no matter what :)
Some girls just care too much about what others think, and don't want to be looked at as being out of the 'norm'. Personally I think that's silly.
Heights never really mattered to me :)
But it does seem to be important to a lot of people for what ever reason...a person once said.
"a short man to a women is a fat chick to guy"The same reason why most guys like thin girls.
Size matters ;)
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