Polls: Dating

When my ex broke up with me she gave me so many reasons. I took those reasons as offensive and personal as they were and pleaded for her back when I should have seriously shut her up, like she literally uses instagram photos of when she was young and beautiful to attract guys. She was so insecure I had to show her my phone a few times that I wasn’t doing anything wrong. Not a stable person emotionally and just a very mixed up girl. I should have destroyed her completely.

She made it seem like I was the problem when she was basically 100% to blame for the failure of the relationship. She was literally like I didn’t gift her and provide for her

Normally you can say just move on.
But this girl. We were so compatible on paper, chemistry was on fire and she was very very beautiful. She expressed interest in getting married to me.

Then we argue for a couple weeks and she gets this bad feeling, said I didn’t make her feel special. She spoke for like 1.5 hours about why she didn’t want to be with me.

It hurts as I loved her and thought she would never leave me as I was good to her and I am very blessed. Obviously I will try and improve myself and move on. But damn the hurt of this cuts deep as it was so sudden going from hot to cold.

We were only together for 4 months but used to meet each other so much.

28 year old girl. Brother is divorced. Girl has been in a few relationships and had her heart broken twice. She was going to get married to a guy, weren’t engaged, parents had met but then she called it off. Then she went to Thailand for a month or so by herself.

Generally if you want a very beautiful girlfriend have you got to make sure you are rich

For me I want to change my number and deactivate my Instagram.

The main reason is that I want a fresh start. But also I would like my ex to realise I am completely unobtainable. I just want to work on myself and disappear for a couple years.

When we broke up. This girl really hurt me, made me feel as if I did something wrong. She told me I’m untrustworthy and a player. It has had quite an impact on me as I know I’m a good person and have morals and a conscience. She gave me many reasons, I feel very hurt. It often makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong for trying to be attractive, good looking, confident and successful.

I swear I didn't hear this "6ft+" thing so much in the past

Me and my partner look so different.

She has white skin and light eyes and short. I am tall, dark skin and dark eyes.

Let’s say the girl you really like is going to breakup with you when you’ve been a good partner.

Don’t give her closure just ghost her. She’ll never get you off her mind.

Women can’t get those ex’s out of their mind

I dated a slightly older girl and it almost destroyed my life.

I guess we are at slightly different stages of life and she expects more

Guy makes 2X girl but had only worked for 1 year and a bit. He comes from a very wealthy family. Girl has been working for 4 years, both are educated professionals.

Guy paid for first 5 dates then they did 50/50, they don’t go and do expensive things. Just normal dinners and coffee.
The girl is very beautiful.

If after a breakup if they don’t block me does that mean they probably never loved/cared about you

My opinion is that it’s because young women are encouraged to prioritise themselves over everyone. Like to be a wife and a mother you need a degree of selflessness. Gen Z and below don’t have that.
Like girls will only look at a guy and be like what does he do for me and not vice versa.

Obviously not all women. They’ll always be good ones. But most.

Would this shock a girl if her ex became so successful like imagine like Elon musk. Very wealthy and famous