Is it a red flag if your significant other got bullied at different jobs and when they were in school?

[Anonymous]

Yes

Nope

[DragonDan444]

Bullying says more about the people bullying. People who bully are cowards point blank because they generally leave people alone who aren’t easy targets. They like to target people who can’t or won’t fight back. They’re usually very self projecting very self loathing miserable people that take their misery out on others.

[Anonymous]

Well it is if they never figured out how to stand up for themselves. Everyone gets bullied in some way but it's the getting out of it that's the important thing.

[Nikki1989]

It could be depending on the reasons.

[choco-latte]

How is it a red flag that other people were assholes to them? Nobody is forcing an asshole to be an asshole.

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Opinion Owner]

Bullies target random people sometimes