Why do some couples choose loud public fights instead of calm talks?

[Anonymous]

I’ll never understand how women chose to argue with their boyfriends in public can’t they have a talk calmly why resort to anger? The number of times I’ve seen these happening in my country it’s ridiculous. What’s the point in arguing? As someone with Asperger’s I’ve this knowledge that arguing doesn’t make things better. Isn’t it much better to discuss what they’ve issues about rather than just trying to get people to stare at them? I don’t get it… I’ve never been in a relationship before, even though I’ve no experience isn’t it normal to see these happening?

It’s not normal

It’s normal couple behaviour

[Anonymous]

Because the guys don’t listen, or try to leave the house whenever she wants to talk. One of my exes ignored my texts or even blocked me whenever I wanted to talk about an issue and if it was irl he would just leave and then do silent treatment for days. After a few months of this we eventually ended up on the parking lot outside my home arguing because I was sick and tired of him running away everytime there was an issue so I followed him when he once again tried to run off instead of talking like normal people. I didn’t breakup because trauma bond.

[DishLady]

For some reason the splashy public scene that feeds the screamer's ego has become a thing in the past decade. Personally, I would never want a scene, I would rather quietly walk out. I would never want a big fight, I would rather have a conversation over coffee like a decent human being. Anything else is like two monkeys slinking crap at each other. Completely uncivilized.

[Anonymous]

Because human minds confine themselves inside a healthy on earth, which their parents lock them inside of due to ignorance of how the psyche works and the people who rule the world know how it works and use it to gain power over the slaves.

[Opinion Owner]

Hell* on earth.

I should disable autocorrect on the new phone.

[Iron_Man]

They feel like the crowd will protect them so they say what they want in front of people

[Sunshinelips]

When people are angry and that pissed off they raise their voices to be heard by the other person and to get their point across. We all have anger inside of us, some people are louder about it than others

[Anonymous]

When you go to certain countries everyone's fighting loudly as you walk down the street. Then you go to Denmark or somewhere like that and it's like no one's even talking.

[Anonymous]

It’s really normal, it’s quite rare but it does happen from time to time. It’s funny though both your questions here are slanting it toward being the woman at fault.

[Anonymous]

I guess one of them must have poor impulse control. Fighting is normal, but I would definitely want it in private

[jahaims]

You don't understand that different people have different levels of maturity?

[Alex-Snow]

If possible it should be a private thing

[Anonymous]

They're trash.

[MasterKS]

They mus fuck loudly too. LOL