What do you think are the reasons couples fight?

[gayesblog]

What do you think can be main reasons for couples to fight?

[caring__1]

People fight because they don't know how to communicate. They are so focused on being heard, that no one takes the time to actually consider the other person's perspective. It's hard to fight when you're sharing the other person's experience. You can communicate or you can argue, but it is impossible for both to coexist. When arguments start, you'll notice a lot of "you" statements. These are assumed statements of fact about the other that show a selfish lack of consideration and only trigger defensiveness from the other.

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's usually some sort of conflict. I've had a conflict with frivolous spending and with women that try to justify things like flirting or talking to some other dude as if he's not just trying to fuck.

I think women conflict with me the most for being a blunt asshole that will just say what I think. Usually not even directly at them, just how I treat people in general. Like some bum bugging me for money will make me react with a "fuck off" sort of attitude... some chicks don't like that shit about me. I guess I drive too aggressively as well.

[Red-Blaze]

Diffrence
Its two diffrent entites trying to share something, even if there simmiler they will differ or be too simmiler on stuff that will create conflict
And it can be good or bad depending how they take it, a fight can end up advancing there connection and making it stronger, as they get a better understanding of each outher, and get to an agreement
Or it could end up bad and break it, its all about how they handle it and take it, and in hope they ise it to grow

[Caramalkisses23]

Everything. I was in a relationship with the same guy for years. And in the beginning I argued over spending tome, then it let to arguing over him cheating. Then it led to us fighting over just not being compatible and having different mindsets. Maybe your morals and values are different.

[Pinay_ako]

• Money
• cultural differences
• family issues
• jealousy/controlling issues
• career
• children
• sex

[lightbulb27]

they are not communicating well which includes really listening and hearing the other,

they don't agree,

they don't know how to argue and pick their battles,

and they are tired and stressed.

IT could be they are fundamentally different and so there are too many areas of disagreement.

[weysally]

money, sex, or lack of it, one or both not doing what is expected of them with household chores, just a few there

[Damcky]

With me, it always seemed to be about sex. Could never understand how something so enjoyable could cause such harshness. Sex has always been so enjoyable.

[Damcky]

Never about money

[WellGreetingsISay]

Miscommunications, finances, or difference in opinions. But most often, with healthy couples, it's stress from other causes that has them on edge

[NathanDavis]

more often than not... a lack of proper communication

[WanderingLoveWizard]

My girl tried to sell our house out from under me once, but to be fair, I've done worse

[Sasha0426]

And you’re still together?

[es20490446e]

They don't respect their different views, preferences and style.

Which are a fact of life.

[Babygirl_S]

-Infidelity

-Financial problems

-Immaturity

-Alcoholism

[BJP21]

Money, control of the relationship, inseparable differences... The list goes on.

[avony12]

I’d say sex, miscommunication and finance.

[Julia1244]

Misunderstanding

[Anonymous]

Depends on the conflict on what the fight is about

[EaterPeter]

Nothing

[EaterPeter]

They fight for all the wrong reasons