I figured, they argue about the things that make us unique. And most of the time about certain things that make us fall in love with one another. That is, not money or chores as others said, but the little differences that make us humans. Because if we didn't have differences in our vision of certain subjects, if we always agreed with one another, then we would eventually grow bored of one another. Imagine always having someone who agrees with you, someone who always thinks like you... you wouldn't learn anything from them and you and you will not have to make those little compromises that we all do in a relationship.
This is not to say that what others have said is wrong, but you asked about "the most", and I belive chores and money play a very little, however much apparent, role in a relationship, while the arguing and understanding of the differences between the two lovers is much more likely to be seen and heard.
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Sex, money, political views and religion I would say are the top 4.
For us it’s when we do things that risks health and safety. It’s not really arguments it’s strong feelings of protectiveness.
For most people I would say:
Trust
Respect
Money
Division of chores, spending money, Quality time, image/reputation (would include social media squabbles in there), personal time, vacation, contempt veiled as humor.
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I’m guessing child care or in laws
Money.. Attention.. faithfulness... Inconsistencies... disrespect.. I swear like 90 % of relationships they don't actually like each other lol
No thinking about it... from experience, it's MONEY that causes the most arguments.
It depends on the Couple's dynamic, but the below are possible reasons and are somewhat interlinked.
1. Sex
2. Finance
3. Household Chores and Management
4. Parenting
5. CommunicationStarting from love and sex talk, and with the passage of time all worldly matters come up, declining initially charm and passion.
Money is the number 1 thing in most relationships.
Long term couples? Definitely money
You didn't do this that stuff
money and other people?
1- Money
2- Jealousy
3- SexEither something to do with financial or kids
for me its not listing , seems like disrespect
Money and sex
Money and time
I think it is money.
Family
money
Money and in-laws
Money.
Sex !
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