What do you and your partner argue about the most?

[Simslover92]

For us it's definitely romance or lack thereof.

[dynamicyandere]

Miscommunication and misunderstanding is definitely #1.


When one or both (usually both) are trying to communicate something but feel misunderstood.


I could be saying something that makes perfect sense to me, but it can be unclear to her and vice versa.


Often times things would have been understood if they were worded differently, whether from me or from her.


We always keep talking until things get resolved, but things can get tense when misunderstandings happen.


Some people are just wired very differently. What may be simple in my mind could be complicated in her mind. What could be simple in her mind could be complicated in my mind.


We just need to exercise patience and empathy and be willing to listen to the other side, making sure that we take the time to ensure that both of us are seen, heard, and understood.


Easier said than done. But, we both work on it.

[Simslover92]

Yes that's certainly true. And one of our biggest problems besides the romance thing we have. So I totally understand and right there with you on that.

[CubaPirate]

Spending money lol

[Simslover92]

A tale as old as time lol

[CubaPirate]

🤣👍🤣

[AviatorTom]

She claims I don't listen to her. I do listen but her stories are so long, by the time she finishes them, I've tuned her out. Then she blows up.

[Simslover92]

Sorry you have that issue. I'm not one for long stories myself and often tune out when it becomes a novel of a story being told so I feel your pain.

[Apple1996]

Not much tbh. We only fight about little things

[Simslover92]

Yeah I think what we fight about now are little things like the romance thing. It used to be much bigger things though but we're starting to really get to know each other better and know how to communicate things better to each other.

[Nikki1989]

We haven't argued once in our 8 years together.

[Mansearching]

Y'all haven't disagreed on anything.

[Mansearching]

? Not.

[Simslover92]

That's awesome!

[Mansearching]

Don't wanna broadcast that here.

But we're just a normal couple. Have ups and downs.

[Simslover92]

That's fine. Understandable.

[Mansearching]

@Simslover92. Appreciate that. Its just a private thing. The subject of the argument not that we do.

Thanks for the MHO by the way

[Simslover92]

You're welcome!

[Anonymous]

I can't control my puns and she sometimes gets pissed

[exitseven]

Mostly about all the stuff that I do wrong.

[Simslover92]

I used to do that a lot and that's one I had to scale back on. I realized that that wasn't good for our relationship. Hopefully she realizes that's that not good to always focus on what you're doing wrong.

[Sparkie460]

What she wants to eat when we eat out

[Simslover92]

Definitely a classic argument!

[Sparkie460]

It's funny, she knows what to make when she cooks dinner but when we have take out, she doesn't have a clue

[Simslover92]

Haha that is funny

[collie22]

Last time it was finger nail polish, geez

[Simslover92]

Wow. Did he not want you to wear it or something?

[collie22]

He wanted me to put on black polish

[Simslover92]

And you didn't?

[collie22]

I didn't

[Sparkie460]

How long did that argument last? That's a silly thing to argue about.

[collie22]

@Sparkie460 that annoyed me for a couple hours

[BLP11520]

Where she wants to go

[Simslover92]

You mean in life or in general?

[BLP11520]

In general

[Simslover92]

Oh ok.

[BLP11520]

Restaurant’s movies and stuff

[Simslover92]

Oh ok. Yeah I hear that's a common argument with couples.

[BLP11520]

Sometimes money

[Simslover92]

Yep that's another one too.

[BLP11520]

Well it’s like a tree that needed trimming she wanted to wait I said hire someone we had a historic windstorm shortly after but we did have them trimmed

[BLP11520]

In time

[Anonymous]

I don't have partner...