What do couples argue about the most in a relationship?
In my case it's definitely finances. I feel like in a lot of relationships it's usually finances. In the state I live in, it is literally so hard to get by. Everything is so overpriced when it comes to housing, food, car payments, utilities, etc. My bills are as followed: rent $950, car payment $384, insurance $186, electricity $81-$100, food monthly $500 give or take, kids school functions $100-$200 every other month, gas to get to and from work and stores $150 roughly monthly, medical marijuana used for my insomnia $160 a month, basic internet for kids schooling $77, and lastly phone bills $120 monthly. That's not taking in the miscellaneous costs throughout the months. None of this includes the outrageous 15% sales taxes added on to literally everything either. So generally when we do argue, though it's rare, it's because I am so stressed out about our finances that I can't even function properly. I save money, as much as I can. My boyfriend... not so much lol
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Mostly petty things, rarely any big issues although that's present too. Arguments are a normal part of the relationship, but they can be avoided if we just accept we are different. We can't make our partner to be the 100% fitting other half of ourselves, because they're simply not. They're an addition to our lives we should appreciate and enjoy to the fullest :)
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From my personal experience and other couples I've seen or read about, the majority of arguments are surfaced from financial struggles, a direction of miscommunication/misunderstandings or annoyances that tip someone over the edge.
Not every couple is going to agree with each other's point of view. What's important here is understanding why they are thinking the way they do and/or why they are committing the actions they do. Sometimes, we make reckless mistakes, become selfish at times and/or fail to see the perception of our significant other and that's ok because we aren't perfect! Arguments are normal in a relationship and the best ways to resolve them are to simply talk them out. It would a wonderful reality if couples never had to argue a day in their lives but unless we were carbon clones of each other, differences will arise and arguments are bound to happen.
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Financial issues their difference in standards, values, traditions, and background in general.
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The biggest fights I've had were usually over finance. Next comes a difference in various behaviors, (as an example: how one shops... I have yet to master the technique of proper grocery checkout and bagging... There is a very complicated and vague set of rules as to what is placed on the conveyer belt in what order and is bagged with which other items... We have been living and shopping together for nearly 7 years and I still get this wrong consistently).
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Easy. It's money. Because money is everything. Money is all.
Money is life and death. Good and bad. Food and water. Destruction and creations. Justice and injustice. Women and men. It's everything -
When one doesn't do what the other one tells them simply because that's how they want it
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Silly things that do not have a whole lot to do with whats really bothering them.
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Two things. Money and how fat her ass looks in those jeans.
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Who gets on top. Most common argument
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Money i think. Money is one of the biggest reasons relationships fall apart.
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Personally how she think I should be which is pretty much some crazy Christian perfect man which doesn't exist
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Sex and house work and being told they need to go here or there today. Bills and all
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About nothing, because girls love to be insecure for no reason.
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Hey remember the more you argue the hotter there friend is.. Stop that shit...
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Financial, lack of communication and affection, too getting used to each other in a bad way...
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People are generally angry for reasons other than what they tell u..
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I heard it's money. my friend told me that money is only thing. there is nothing to fight
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The other one's behavior.
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Money and how to raise the kids
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Depends on the couple
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After financial its family issues.
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Housework
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What are we eating?
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