He wants Burger King 🤴 but she wants Starbucks.
She wants the seat down but he keeps it up every time.
She wants to watch the Devil Wears Prada but he wants to watch King Arthur.
For couples: what do you usually argue/fight about?
A lot of the arguments my wife and I get in is when we don't serve each other or put one another first. This causes an in balance in our relationship with one person taking on more work or responsibility and not getting enough rest or down time to recover.
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Usually I’m more concerned with how much she sleeps and avoids physical activity. ie her mental physical health
She than proceeds to start arguing
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How much stuff to carry at a time, like from the car, or when travelling, or moving. It's a major difference in philosophies. Many trips that are "easy" or fewer trips where you push yourself on how much you can lift or fit in your arms.
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Unfortunately always fighting about how to parent the kids. Me and my husband have very different parenting styles.
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For me, it’s usually miscommunication. When we are using a word or phrase differently than each other. Perhaps I said something and she thought it meant this but I actually meant that. Or, she says something but I thought she meant this but she actually meant that.
My SO can be arguing with a point I never made because she misunderstood me.
Or, she said something a certain way and I interpreted it in a way that wasn’t what she meant.
We both also have some rough memories and have experienced toxic relationships in the past so sometimes we accidentally trigger each other.
But, we are constantly learning and improving and we actively do our best to understand each other better so that conflicts happen less. And, if we notice unhealthy patterns we bring them up and work out solutions to find better ways of going about things.
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If this is the worst thing you ever argue about with anyone, consider yourself super blessed to have such first world problems.
I still remember the girl that strung me along for five months just to get a higher score in a Facebook game. Who then lied about my whereabouts one day in order to try to turn my mom against me, because I'd outlived my usefulness.
When she was confronted about being such a really obvious liar, she offered no apology, tried to hurt me even more, and insisted she was the "victim," because she didn't want me to get the job that I got. Because she felt it would be "awkward" if she shopped there and I ran into her mother. Or... something.
Downright sociopath, that woman was!
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Most of my past argumwnts with exes were always Whether or not someone was flirting with us and if we handled it accordingly or just let it carry on. There was also the argument of hating eachothers friends or family and how soon we’d be ready to have kids
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I think it is always round about. We all have a concept of what a good girlfriend or boyfriend is and eventually it comes down to breaches of that which causes arguments. She always want Starbucks for gawds sake. Why can't I get Burger King now and again. She knows I like Burger King best but it always has to be what she likes. A good girlfriend would say lets go Burger King now and again.
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Her selfishness , when she only thinks about herself , Lack of intimacy and affection , I get moody as hell when I am constantly being denied intimacy or affection , like I have to wait until she is in the mood , it’s ok for her to initiate it but pretty much not ok for me to , kind of why I been keeping my options opened
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We don't fight. We've been together for more than 4 years abd been living together for 2 years, and never had a huge fight.
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My boyfriend has a bit of a short attention span, once I sent him to make me toast and he sat down and ate it and forgot it was for me 😂 Also him being too oblivious in social situations can cause problems.
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Me and my girlfriend argue about everything literally... at least according to her anyways... well I probably am not a good example because this is my first relationship ever... im sorry
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Usually it's about whose craving is stronger, it should be settled peacefully, and who can appeals the other with their choice.
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Honestly, our biggest arguments are about where to go for dinner when we haven’t planned ahead.
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Paying for things
its never serious though its just wanting to pay for each other
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He thought it was normal to tell me everytime he found a girl attractive. I didn't.
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When we were younger it was money. Now argue on how to get to point A to point b. It is kind of funny.
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Quickie immediately or wait for more time for a longer session
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Everything lol. I'm pessimistic and she's optimistic
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Money and family
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I don’t remember lol
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I am not a couple
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