What are some common relationship arguments that all couples eventually get into?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

As others have said. Money is common. Working and what’s equal. Being jealous over someone else. Feeling the relationship is one sided. One is demanding something from the other and the other says no… and they get pissed off. The list goes on.

Almost ALL couples fight. At some point or another. But if a relationship is filled with it. Sometimes it’s time to move on.

[ProbablyClueless]

Any kind of basic communication differences and the way that interacts with each partner's sense of freedom. I really don't care if my partner isn't super communicative all the time, but I shouldn't be randomly discovering stuff at last minute because you just didn't think to tell me.

If you and I have date night tonight at 8pm that I had to make reservations for, I shouldn't be finding out at 7:30pm that you and the girls had a crazy day at the fair (that you didn't tell me you were going to) and that and you're just going to grab some random fastfood with them before coming home. It's not a controlling thing for me to have an issue with behavior like that, sometimes one partner considers basic interests like that to be "losing their freedom."

[sage2021]

One of them being very messy and trashing the house. Then everyone else has to live in their filth or you ended up cleaning up their messes. The gloves are on 🥊🥊

[Pinay_ako]

• Money
• time spent together/apart
• Career
• family
• other people/jealousy
• where to eat
• division of labor
• disrespect

[Constatine]

Sums it up... Duh 😃😁😀

[rosemilk]

nailed it

[Z1pTD]

BAM
You got em all

[Pinay_ako]

@Z1pTD 🤣 thank you

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My ex and I never argued about money, he used to say

“The money problem is not a problem, we can handle it.”

I agreed.

When there is love, money can’t get between you two, as long as both of you are hard working people and not being the parasitic to another partner, as long as both of you contribute, money is never worth hurting your loved one about

We never usually argued about any of those, apart from

“Other people, jealousy.” We have argued twice in 3.5 years and both arguments were about this topic.

[Z1pTD]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 fair. For some people, totally not an issue. If you're successful, awesome you're set.
If you're like me though and you grew up poor and you're going and used to working 70 hours a week to support you and yours, you're going to have a pretty important discussion if your partner goes and spends one ofnyour paychecks on a non-necessity.
For the record, I've never had that conversation with a partner bc by the time we're together, they understand and we work together towards things each other will enjoy.

[AviatorTom]

There are two things that every couple argues about... eventually: money and in-laws.

[Marklaw12]

Tidiness.

When we first moved in together. I was tidy but messy. I left the mugs in the dishwasher cos I didn't see the point of removing them since it's return there anyways.

She didn't like that.

I never fold my clothes. I live them in the basket after it's all dried up. I'm always at the office so there's no point folding them.

She began Ironing my clothes and took care of the dishes.

The bargain was me covering her phone bills and of course always get milk on my way home.

[molonski2]

Money - Career - Responsibilities - Children ( if / when ) - Treatment of others family

- Food - Accommodation and yet again , did I say?

Money / Money / Money / and expenditure of same , particularly if one is financially illiterate.

[Kabluie]

Money is probably common, but that's never really an issue or much of a subject in my adult life unless i date someone at a well younger age. It's more of the future or just what we want to do. Time together sometimes comes up, but when you are in open or poly relationship just got to keep a calendar and stick to it, the minute you start to make cracks, the worse it can get because their time is already divided into more people in your life.

[abeymm99]

In my opinion is lack of CREST
Communication: They need to communicate to each other more.

Respect: Respect each other
Expectation: Do not expect more than what you have from your partner
Satisfaction:show your partner you're satisfied
Trust: trust your partner

[lorenzomichael]

She might ask what are you looking at? And the guy would say nothing why? And she'll say bullshit I seen you looking at her! (Another girl) And here we go round 1. Or God forbid one of you brings up an ex in comparison to some bullshit. Ding Ding round 2.

[Martyrdom28]

Work division and time away/ apart.
mostly everything is my fault the house is dirty or laundry isn’t done or dinner cooked. I work long hours as a teacher and coach so I am gone a lot. But I work to do all of this when I am home and it’s still never enough.

[LiamJHayden]

Not sure that there are any that all get into, but a very common one seems to be money. A plurality of the divorces I have worked on are not about infidelity but are about money. Many breakups of unmarried couples are due to money pressures.

[OddBeMe]

Honestly, I would argue MOST divorces are about the little things. That’s what bothers us most. It’s not about having the same religion, or parenting style. Weirdly it’s toothpaste tubes, dishes in the sink or leaving wet towels in the floor.

I’ve told my wife this a thousand times. I don’t want to “dry off” with a wet fcking towel!

[ArrowheadSW]

A lot of it has to do with spending money. I've never been married, but just going off friends who I know who are married.

[havingfun2023]

Groovy 👍😎☮️✌🏻

[minaed]

In MOH; most arguments are about.

1-Money Needs

2- Selfishness

3-Cleanliness

4- Being always too busy, to care for and stay with her; always happens when you are back from a hard and busy day at work.

also, there is 5-Social needs, when she needs to go out with you; but you are too tired, or not socialy interested person, especially when you love games more socializing.

[Benplus10]

Money, and who is not doing enough around the house. “ I’m always wiping crumbs off the counter.. etc

[ta-ra]

Money and/or kids. Whether to have them or not, then how to co-parent. Is usually the most arguments I hear about.

[havingfun2023]

Probably something stupid or petty when the other is having a bad day or feeling annoyed. That would be a downer lol. 😅

[havingfun2023]

Or: growing apart on previous shared views 🪟🪟🪟👀

[boobliker]

arguments can start over any small thing so talk about every thing and meet in the middle and that the best you can hope for, try not to be not talking by bed time as if it goes in to the next day thats bad, good life to you both.

[slatyb]

There aren't any that all couples get into. My wife and I never fight -- we just acknowledge the other's feelings and come to a resolution.

[Andres77]

Religion, money, frequency of sex, timing of sex, sexual kinks, how to raise the kids, the mother in law, his illegal past, his illegitimate kids showing up…🤔…for a start.
oh, politics..

[Fireguy17]

Money, I saw you looking at my best friend, sister, mother, we never go anywhere, all you do is watch sports, why don't you...

[summiter]

I would guess money and then household issues like who cleans what

[strateguy632]

she: you didn't DO whatever.

he: but i did nothing bad.

[prakhindev92]

Personal space , you give personal space , you are gonna get some space too , but it is not to cheat on your partner obviously , 100% no secrets , don't over react , there is lots , but I am done

[andreasderjuengere]

it's: '' who gets the bathroom first tomorrow morning ''

[Anonymous]

its always the same argument. Whether she has to sleep in the stables again tonight.
But im a light sleeper, her tossing and turning wakes me
Sending her to the stables after sex is the only fair solution.
But nag nag nag

[Alex-Snow]

Probably money, sex and issues with their kids

[Djaay]

A women's emotions vrs a man's logic. The relational crossroad of being offended vrs a solution towards an answer with compromise.

[Djaay]

Alright... give me a minute

[Anonymous]

'You promised not to tell anyone that it is only 3.5 inchs'

[Opinion Owner]

@vsherry664 Why would I do a thing like that?

[Christoff92]

Stereotyping and know it all, also small daily and financial needs.

[PeachesNCream98]

Money, time down together, eating g out vs eating in

[Elinnnor]

Trust, honesty, chores, daily decisions , money, etc.

[Guido]

The most common one is money. Most couples fight about money at some point.

[JesseP1nk]

Money, about third party (a man or a woman who gets one person jealous)

[azgınteke]

indifference, premature ejaculation, joint actions, nice holidays, stylish clothing actions, spending less time with each other...

[Felix_Park]

Misunderstanding. Most of the arguments stem from misunderstandings and a lack of trust in each other.

[dolemite58]

women have this amazing skill of turning a compliment into an argument.

[the_sinner]

Not spending enough time with each other, priorities, not being creative any more.

[fuddly]

Money
Paying bills
Paying mortgage
Paying for holidays

[CubaPirate]

Finance & family commitments and house keeping duties

[Anonymous]

Sex, money and how to raise kids are probably the big 3.

[Tiptoetamm]

In-laws and money or bills

[SonnyMyers]

Money, how to load the dishwasher, folding clothes.

[Anonymous]

Usually about money or who takes care of house or cleaning

[Opinion Owner]

@vsherry664 ok but I hope this isn’t a scam

[BeeNee]

Definitely fighting over household chores.

[havingfun2023]

Some men or women (or other) definitely don't share the load 👍👍👀

[havingfun2023]

A pleasant relationship I'd say takes two to pleasantly tango 👠 👟 🪩👀👀👍

[thegreenyogi]

Stop leaving the toothpaste open without a lid!!

[Skull_Anon]

Toilet seat maybe , not sure

[Jayjay1234567890]

Money
Time spent together

[Avicenna]

Money

[sheikalana]

Tidiness. House chores.

[Anonymous]

Money, probably.

[MissBoogus]

Messes. Money. Toilet seat

[Djaay]

Money is always a woman's one sided argument. Never in my entire life have I even heard of a rumor of a woman lifting the toilet seat for a guy. Just women complaining men don't put it down often enough.

[MissBoogus]

@Djaay how is money a one sided argument? And I don’t really mean the toilet seat, there is always piss on the toilet bowl!

[Djaay]

Bc only women argue over money they have no intention of sharing or feel entitled to. You said toilet seat. Pass in the bowl is from both of you.

[MissBoogus]

@Djaay oh no it’s not lol. I don’t argue about that with money

[Djaay]

Then since you think we're only talking about you , instead of those in general... tell us all then what your arguments concerning money's all about...

[MissBoogus]

@Djaay nah I don’t like your tone

[Djaay]

Well.. you set your self up for that question. What about your intention?

[Iron_Man]

Probably cleaning the house

[Sparkie460]

I'd say most of the arguments are about money

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Money and household chores.

[Hanrej]

Money, how to raise the kids, house work.

[LivingExample]

Money is probably the biggest one!

[krin_m]

Sexual incompatibility, money, house work.

[JonesT10Apr]

No more porn video watching?

[Rouba99]

I think trust and jealousy

[Simslover92]

Money.

[Finchie40]

Money mainly

[butterly248]

Food, cleaning etc.