What are some common relationship arguments that all couples eventually get into?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

As others have said. Money is common. Working and what’s equal. Being jealous over someone else. Feeling the relationship is one sided. One is demanding something from the other and the other says no… and they get pissed off. The list goes on.

Almost ALL couples fight. At some point or another. But if a relationship is filled with it. Sometimes it’s time to move on.

[ProbablyClueless]

Any kind of basic communication differences and the way that interacts with each partner's sense of freedom. I really don't care if my partner isn't super communicative all the time, but I shouldn't be randomly discovering stuff at last minute because you just didn't think to tell me.

If you and I have date night tonight at 8pm that I had to make reservations for, I shouldn't be finding out at 7:30pm that you and the girls had a crazy day at the fair (that you didn't tell me you were going to) and that and you're just going to grab some random fastfood with them before coming home. It's not a controlling thing for me to have an issue with behavior like that, sometimes one partner considers basic interests like that to be "losing their freedom."

[sage2021]

One of them being very messy and trashing the house. Then everyone else has to live in their filth or you ended up cleaning up their messes. The gloves are on 🥊🥊

[Pinay_ako]

• Money
• time spent together/apart
• Career
• family
• other people/jealousy
• where to eat
• division of labor
• disrespect

[Constatine]

Sums it up... Duh 😃😁😀

[rosemilk]

nailed it

[Z1pTD]

BAM
You got em all

[Pinay_ako]

@Z1pTD 🤣 thank you

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My ex and I never argued about money, he used to say

“The money problem is not a problem, we can handle it.”

I agreed.

When there is love, money can’t get between you two, as long as both of you are hard working people and not being the parasitic to another partner, as long as both of you contribute, money is never worth hurting your loved one about

We never usually argued about any of those, apart from

“Other people, jealousy.” We have argued twice in 3.5 years and both arguments were about this topic.

[Z1pTD]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 fair. For some people, totally not an issue. If you're successful, awesome you're set.
If you're like me though and you grew up poor and you're going and used to working 70 hours a week to support you and yours, you're going to have a pretty important discussion if your partner goes and spends one ofnyour paychecks on a non-necessity.
For the record, I've never had that conversation with a partner bc by the time we're together, they understand and we work together towards things each other will enjoy.

[AviatorTom]

There are two things that every couple argues about... eventually: money and in-laws.

[Avicenna]

Money

[Marklaw12]

Tidiness.

When we first moved in together. I was tidy but messy. I left the mugs in the dishwasher cos I didn't see the point of removing them since it's return there anyways.

She didn't like that.

I never fold my clothes. I live them in the basket after it's all dried up. I'm always at the office so there's no point folding them.

She began Ironing my clothes and took care of the dishes.

The bargain was me covering her phone bills and of course always get milk on my way home.

[molonski2]

Money - Career - Responsibilities - Children ( if / when ) - Treatment of others family

- Food - Accommodation and yet again , did I say?

Money / Money / Money / and expenditure of same , particularly if one is financially illiterate.

[Kabluie]

Money is probably common, but that's never really an issue or much of a subject in my adult life unless i date someone at a well younger age. It's more of the future or just what we want to do. Time together sometimes comes up, but when you are in open or poly relationship just got to keep a calendar and stick to it, the minute you start to make cracks, the worse it can get because their time is already divided into more people in your life.

[abeymm99]

In my opinion is lack of CREST
Communication: They need to communicate to each other more.

Respect: Respect each other
Expectation: Do not expect more than what you have from your partner
Satisfaction:show your partner you're satisfied
Trust: trust your partner

[Martyrdom28]

Work division and time away/ apart.
mostly everything is my fault the house is dirty or laundry isn’t done or dinner cooked. I work long hours as a teacher and coach so I am gone a lot. But I work to do all of this when I am home and it’s still never enough.

[LiamJHayden]

Not sure that there are any that all get into, but a very common one seems to be money. A plurality of the divorces I have worked on are not about infidelity but are about money. Many breakups of unmarried couples are due to money pressures.

[OddBeMe]

Honestly, I would argue MOST divorces are about the little things. That’s what bothers us most. It’s not about having the same religion, or parenting style. Weirdly it’s toothpaste tubes, dishes in the sink or leaving wet towels in the floor.

I’ve told my wife this a thousand times. I don’t want to “dry off” with a wet fcking towel!

[ArrowheadSW]

A lot of it has to do with spending money. I've never been married, but just going off friends who I know who are married.

[havingfun2023]

Groovy 👍😎☮️✌🏻

[minaed]

In MOH; most arguments are about.

1-Money Needs

2- Selfishness

3-Cleanliness

4- Being always too busy, to care for and stay with her; always happens when you are back from a hard and busy day at work.

also, there is 5-Social needs, when she needs to go out with you; but you are too tired, or not socialy interested person, especially when you love games more socializing.

[davado88]

its always the same argument. Whether she has to sleep in the stables again tonight.
But im a light sleeper, her tossing and turning wakes me
Sending her to the stables after sex is the only fair solution.
But nag nag nag

[slatyb]

There aren't any that all couples get into. My wife and I never fight -- we just acknowledge the other's feelings and come to a resolution.

[ta-ra]

Money and/or kids. Whether to have them or not, then how to co-parent. Is usually the most arguments I hear about.

[boobliker]

arguments can start over any small thing so talk about every thing and meet in the middle and that the best you can hope for, try not to be not talking by bed time as if it goes in to the next day thats bad, good life to you both.

[Fireguy17]

Money, I saw you looking at my best friend, sister, mother, we never go anywhere, all you do is watch sports, why don't you...

[havingfun2023]

Probably something stupid or petty when the other is having a bad day or feeling annoyed. That would be a downer lol. 😅

[havingfun2023]

Or: growing apart on previous shared views 🪟🪟🪟👀

[Andres77]

Religion, money, frequency of sex, timing of sex, sexual kinks, how to raise the kids, the mother in law, his illegal past, his illegitimate kids showing up…🤔…for a start.
oh, politics..

[summiter]

I would guess money and then household issues like who cleans what

[strateguy632]

she: you didn't DO whatever.

he: but i did nothing bad.