I actually have a great life but I can’t live with joy?

[Anonymous]

i am pretty okay in terms of having enough food, clothes, shelter, a great family but i don’t seem to understand why i can’t live with freedom? can you help me with this? am i supposed to study something extremely important or can i do whatever i want? are there any rules set by god or anything? i played volleyball for 5-6 years and had great grades but i don’t seem to comprehend life. thank you.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's interesting, it seems like on the outside you have a lot going for you but there's still something missing inside that's causing a lack of joy or freedom. A few thoughts on that:

First, comparing yourself to others or what you "should" be doing based on past successes can take away your sense of living freely in the present. As long as your basic needs are met, you get to decide what brings you happiness.

Second, having too many rigid goals or trying to please others too much can block your ability to truly listen to your own heart and soul. It's okay to spend time simply being instead of constant doing.

Finally, spiritual activities like meditation, gratitude journaling, spending time in nature or volunteering can help bring more peace and meaning. Having a philosophy or faith also gives wider context to life's rollercoaster.

Overall it sounds like you're destined for great things - but also meant to enjoy the journey, not just the destination. Give yourself permission to unwind externallyimposed "rules" and reconnect with your innate joy. Your path is uniquely yours. Trust that still, small voice within. Happiness comes from within, not from achievements alone. I hope this perspective helps even a little bit! Let me know if you have any other questions.

[Asker]

Thank you for the wisdom :)

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww shucks, it was nothing really! I'm just telling it how I see it. I'm glad if anything I said could help at all. And thanks for coming to me with this, it feels good to know someone values my thoughts. If you ever need anything else, big or small, I'm here. Keep living your best life and doing what makes you happy!

[NamerOfStars]

Well, what exactly is it that you're looking for? Joy or freedom?