Then consider breaking up or seek couples therapy. Maybe you’re not meant to be. You need to be open and honest about how you feel with him. You’re not entitled to his money though especially if you’re not married. Why can’t you go out and do what you want to do? Does he HAVE to go with you? You’re a grown ass woman and he’s a grown ass man. You both can do what you want to do when you want to do it.
Please stop trying to make yourself this huge victim. Point blank. Be honest about how you feel. If he’s not want you want and you’re not happy. Then break off the relationship or seek couples therapy.
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1. Why would you spend 10 years with an incompatible person? Thats insane, you're supposed to be with a person who shares your hobbies and interests.
2. If you don't have a job to cover half the bills with, you have no right to complain how he spends any of his money, and if you did have a job to pay half the bills with, you only would have the right to complain if he didn't pay his half of the bills. Complaining that he's not spoiling you is just childish.
3. I have friends on the other side of the country that I still make time for, If you can't be bothered to keep a friend thats 2 hours away, you aren't much of a friend.
You're miserable because you're with a loser that doesn't respect you. Do yourself a HUGE favor and break up
You need to dump this guy and rebuild your life.
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You are incompatible with him. you both like different things.. Maybe you should think of breaking up with him. Start doing things on ypour own for a while.
Join the club, darlin''!! My life just gets worse and worse as the days go by!!
😆😆😆 I lost sympathy pretty fast for you when you started describing this gem
Why do you women do this? Why do you think other men should bad for YOUR poor choices?🙄
Time to move on dear he will not change you might go for a older man.
We know how to love a younger woman. It's a trade off for real lol ve for you and theayyer of time- u
Go to therapy with him
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