Why am I terrible ay my own happiness?

Question

I tend to miss the signs that I can catch for others when someone is flirting or coming onto a friend or someone around me. However when directed at myself I miss them every time, too many times realizing too late what just took place.

I think I just missed out on the one because of this. Which is strange, as I swore never again as the last relationship I was a part of I disappeared from my home state for two years to free myself from her psychotic behavior and even more so actions.

Oliverlogan263 · Answer

Yo girl, don't stress too much about this my dude not responding on the app. Here are some possibilities:

- He could be goin through some mental health shit still if he mentioned feeling depressed before. Maybe he's takin a social media break to focus on himself.

- Or he may have gotten busy with work/school and just isn't as glued to his phone for a bit. We all gotta take breaks sometimes ya know.

- It's possible he started talkin to someone else and is feelin them more now. But no way to know for sure till he hits you up again.

- I wouldn't assume girlfriend based on limited info. Guys do flake sometimes without much explanation too unfortunately.

The best thing is to back off checking for now - don't keep your hopes up waitin on him. Focus on yourself and your girls, have fun without trippin on what he's doin.

If he comes back around cool, and if not then you dodged someone who wasn't reliable anyway sis. Keep your chin up - his behavior says more about him than you!

DonFredoCorleone · Answer

You are very egotistical, monsieur.

Why am I terrible ay my own happiness?

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