Would a guy suddenly find a woman more attractive after realizing how loyal she's been as a friend for several years?

[Bethany22]

Especially if loyalty was really important to him, would that trump physical attractiveness?

[exitseven]

Sometimes the thing we need the most can be right under our noses and for whatever reason we do not see it. All that can change in a heartbeat. You think about what life would be like without her. You may realize that she may want the friendship to be more and cause you to wonder about it?

[Avicenna]

Yeah, he'd be totally attracted to her, even if he successfully bottled up his attraction to her- he would be able to trust her and make himself vulnerable to her, something that is crucial in a relationship.

[DJRiddle]

I don't know about thinking they're 'more attractive' if someone is loyal. Loyalty is basically all that a relationship is, right? I can tell you for an absolute fact that finding out someone cheated on me turns them from a 10 to a 0 instantly. period.

[236color]

I think you may have fallen into a trap that usually catches men. The friend zone. If you have been a loyal friend for years and he hasn't tried to advance the relationship, I don't think he's going to. Sorry.

[Fireguy17]

Yes.
For me personally always won out over looks.
Who would want to be with a narcissistic beauty queen who was an angry bitter shrew and thought that the world owed her everything because she was pretty.
No thank you.

[TheorionMage]

I proposed to and married such a divorcee (we've been the MALE half of such a couple for over 20 years so far) <3

[OfMiceandMen]

Loyalty is a good trait and would make me think twice.

[Nikki1989]

Men are not that deep, so probably not.

[MsBrie]

Not always true, i know a few guys that respect loyalty above a lot of other traits.

[dolemite58]

Yes that’s why all the brilliant philosophers have been men 😂

[clampfan101]

Looks have their own importance, but things like loyalty and friendship are always even more important. Frankly I mostly care about the face and hair as far as looks go.

[RetroReviews]

Very well possible loyalty is an admirable trait and it's rare.

[DrPepper12]

I suppose so. A shared crisis or a unexpected shoulder to lean on could do that. Do you want to risk the friendship tho?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Well for me yes as long as she is for real

[KrakenAttackin]

An interesting question. I think people may suddenly realize what they really want in a person and and focus less on some unreasonable ideals.

[Kinkyhubby]

It can happen, as you get to knit the person better

[padrepiedra777]

Somewhat, but he would have to already find her attractive... at least a bit.

[handsomelad70]

I probably would, loyalty being such a virtue.

[padrepiedra777]

@handsomelad70

Indeed. Virtues are expressions of beauty.

[handsomelad70]

I realize it and value it, but LOTS of beautiful women and handsome men aren't loyal, while plenty of plain people ARE loyal. (And vice versa.)

[FuqUFggt]

Lol. No. Men are visual. Save the energy on being loyal and dress slutty.

[Anonymous]

It CAN happen. It happened to me. That doesn't mean it WILL happen. This is a coinflip.

[D_r_e_w]

I don’t know about suddenly, but it’s absolutely possible.

[MsBrie]

I know some guys that prob would.

[FunkyMonkee]

It's possible!

[shortster]

Loyalty is important.

[LEGENDARY4200]

Not suddenly but maybe come to realize that

[Amur8711]

I think it could happen

[Twalli]

Not completely

[GoGetitGio]

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