After a long period of time would a woman’s mind change the way she sees a guy who was attracted to her?

Hey there, this is a question that has always been in my mind.

Do women change their minds and then start thinking and seeing a guy who they know who was attracted to them after a long period of time let’s say after a few years when they rejected the guy after a few failed attempts and let’s say that very same guy who know is a few years older and now has his career path in order and wants to make a life of his own would the woman start thinking about him in the right way or even have some kind of regret? Would she think that now other women are more likely to be threats?

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It's possible that a woman's perception of a man could change over time, particularly if there have been significant changes in their respective life circumstances or if they have had the opportunity to get to know each other better. However, it's important to remember that everyone is unique and may have their own thoughts and feelings about a particular situation.

It's possible that a woman may begin to see a man who was previously attracted to her in a different light if she becomes more aware of his positive qualities or if their interactions change over time. However, it's important to avoid making assumptions about someone's thoughts or feelings, and to communicate openly and honestly with one another about any changes in perception or feelings.

It's also important to remember that rejection can be difficult and painful, and it may take time to heal and move on from those feelings. It's important to respect the other person's boundaries and feelings, and to focus on building positive and healthy relationships with others.

Overall, every situation is unique and it's difficult to make generalizations about how a woman may perceive a man who was previously attracted to her. It's important to approach any potential relationship or interaction with respect, honesty, and open communication.

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Hi there, sorry for the late reply I’ve been so busy thank you for reaching out I just hope that after a few years without contact a woman might have changed her mind about a guy who was attracted to her your Iv known a woman for years and years but sadly not anymore Iv never had the opportunity to tell her how I feel about her 😔

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Hey it’s all good man don’t worry. I understand that you may feel uncertain about how this woman may feel about you after a long period of time without contact. You just need to respect her feelings and decisions, regardless of whether or not they have changed over time.

If you have the opportunity to reconnect with her, you could consider expressing your feelings to her in a respectful and honest way. However, it's important to be prepared for the possibility that she may not feel the same way or may not be interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you.

If she does not reciprocate your feelings, it's important to respect her decision and move on. It's possible to maintain a friendship with someone even if you have romantic feelings for them, as long as both parties are comfortable with the arrangement.

My advice which is the best way to find out how she feels is to have an open and honest conversation with her. It's important to approach the situation with respect and consideration for her feelings.

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Hey there thank you so much for your message Iv only just seen it it’s now been 10 years this year that I developed very strong feelings for this woman I have not seen her for 5 years now I miss her every second I find her like no other woman I ever met she is so unique and I just love her cute little face the problem is that Iv never had the right chance to tell her how I feel for her I understand that she may not feel the same way but I just hope that she would be delighted on how I think she is the most beautiful woman Iv ever seen 8 years ago I once had the chance to tell her that she is hot and she was literally melting and blushing that was the best day I just wonder if I could make her melt again she is a little older too but that’s also why I really want her

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You have very strong feelings for this woman and that you hold her in high regard. 10 years is a long time to hold onto these feelings, and it's understandable that you miss her and think about her often.

If you haven't had the chance to tell her how you feel, it's ultimately up to you to decide whether or not to take that chance. However, it's important to approach the situation with respect for her feelings and boundaries.

If you do decide to tell her how you feel, it's important to do so in a way that is clear, respectful, and considerate of her feelings. It's also important to be prepared for the possibility that she may not feel the same way, and to respect her decision if she is not interested in pursuing a relationship.

It's also worth considering whether or not it's healthy to hold onto such strong feelings for someone who may not reciprocate them. It's important to take care of your own emotional well-being and to seek support from friends, family, or a mental health professional if needed.

The decision to tell this woman how you feel is a personal one that only you can make. It's important to approach the situation with mindfulness and respect for both yourself and the other person involved.

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