I had a gender reveal with my boyfriend yesterday, and he posted a story with me and asked if he should tag me in it I said yeah ofc… I was tired I went to bed and got on instagram when I woke up and saw he didn’t tag me. And this was our baby shower together. So I was like wtf, I get all these notifications from everyone that I was tagged or mentioned in their stories except him. So I’m like that’s weird so I go to his page to see if he tagged me in the comments or something like that. He didn’t so now I’m kinda confused like why didn’t he tag me. So I started thinking he didn’t want some women to see me. So I think of a women that has come between us in the past. A women who he said he had no contact with and that was blocked and it’s in the past. So I said okay and went with that but something told me to check his followers and sure enough the women is there and they are mutuals. So I called him and I was asking him what’s going on because he told me she was blocked. He then tells me that she was blocked at the time he told me but apparently we had a fight and he unblocked her and added her again and she then added him. Mind you we have not broken up since January and that breakup lasted 4 hours because not long after that I found out I was pregnant and had to tell him. And we discussed our issues and decided we should get back together and work it out. It’s now June and we have not had any breakups or periods of us not communicating. I just feel like whatever fight he’s talking about that we had, after we made up why didn’t he block her again. And also why would he turn to her in the moment it got difficult with us. He claims he didn’t communicate with her but I don't know. So this morning I didn’t have much time to talk but I told him. We need to take a break for about a week and figure everything out. And I feel he braving me to feel insecure when he told me he didn’t like how I looked 2 minutes into our gender reveal
Should we breakup for good?
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You're reading too much into the fact if he tagged you or didn't. Relationships are best kept private, I don't see the big deal that he did or didn't tag you. I mean everyone knows your pregnant by him right. It does suck that he unblocked the girl but you can ask for him to block her again and if he respects you he will do so. I mean you have a baby on the way and you want to be able to work things out as much as you can because a baby coming will get tougher. Also you might be overly emotional as well so just talk it out and communicate
No is instagram does not know he even has a girlfriend and we been together for 9 years. He promised me that he would do that. And he took his promise back. I shouldn’t even have to ask. I have twins coming in 3 months. And on top of everything he told me he wasn’t happy with how I looked in my dress about 2 minutes before the party started.
I want to work everything out yes but like I said it’s been 9 years and I don’t have anymore room for him entertaining other women especially women he cheated on me with
Oh that's a different story then. I can see why you don't trust him anymore. You should stop collecting red flags then, when someone cheats that's it... there's no turning back
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