Most Helpful Guy
OOOOKKKKK YOU need to get your emotions in check girl. I understand what it feels like to go through a break up, but it is important if not vital to as best as possible control your emotions and remain calm. If someone does not have a desire to talk to you, then you honestly have to let them be. I think you need to remain this NC rule. You are obviously having a TOUGH time getting over this guy and believe me I know how you feel. So speaking from experience you do not need to worry about his Instagram, don't worrry about who he is talking tooo because in the end it IS NOT BENEFICIAL FOR YOU and will only hurt you more. In my opinion remain the NC and slowly move on from this guy. Stop thinking about him as much as possible. I think it is important as to why you are arguing, try to bring some logic and reality to the situation. YOU TWO WERE ARGUING. THAT IS NOT VERY POSITIVE. WHY WERE YOU ARGUING? STOP STALKING HIS MOVES, the sooner you do the better you will feel time will help heal.. IF you want to rant or ask questions or just post feel free =)0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
I'm sorry you're going through this, but he IS your ex now, so why is it important to have to know this? The guy did you a favour by breaking up with you by the sounds of it. You're wallowing in the hows and whys of his breakup techniques and what he chooses to do now as a single guy. I know it doesn't matter, but dropping off your DVDs in person or not is such a non issue. You got them back. Why did you think you needed them personally handed to you? At least you got them back. Some people chuck them out, or damage them first.
Obviously he is having some issues that he needs to work on and you're not helping the situation by reminding him that he's a jerk. Though you're not saying it directly, any time he hears from you or sees you it's making him feel this way. And exes really should be cutting off contact, and so should you from him. How would it be if your next boyfriend found it so important that you be in touch with this guy by remaining on social media sites as contacts and end things in an idyllic way that only you think should be?
In no way am I defending him, but I am more or less wanting you to see that your need to know things or how things are done with an ex now is no longer your concern and you are expending energy in the wrong place now. He's choosing to live his life without you looking at what he's doing, and hopefully he'll give you the same when you move on and meet a much better guy. He's deleted your photo, and that says it all. It's the new age insult now and sends a big message that he no longer wants to be reminded of your relationship, he has other plans. And really, what he does on his page is his business now.
Find your strength to know YOU have power to get on with things that won't include him either and you can start by knowing how to make yourself happy without relying on what or why he's doing something. Hang out with friends and meet a new guy. This one has made it clear it's over. Good luck.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE