This actually happens to women much more than men. Most women will get frustrated or lost interest in a guy and push him away, and once he's gone she's usually the one missing him. I've been through relationships before where the women were the ones who lost interest or wanted to swing over to someone else, and when I let go and went radio silent, they tried to come back.
Women regret their decisions a lot more than they will admit.
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Most of times they want back what they lost but it depends on what happened in the past and how both of your personality's get along. Sometimes you can still care about your ex although you realistically know a relationship just doesn't work out.
But it's a well-known fact that a lot of guys don't appreciate what they have untill they lose it. It's male biological malfunction I guess😜
I've seen that happen once with someone I knew... but by the time he realized the lost opportunity the girl had chosen someone else... He never married... she divorced... but their moment was lost forever.
Sometimes the door is best left closed.
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Sure.
It's called ''cutting your losses''
Male self esteem of the manly style will often forbid us to go into reverse gear and return to where we already have been - even if it was good (enough).
This prevents ''us'' from suffering stagnation.
Yes. This happened with me. Had an amazing girlfriend in high school and after. She was so cute and pretty and we had a great sex life. I just thought I wanted to be single and hook up with other girls because I was young. We broke up. I wanted her back a couple of weeks after knowing was it was like without her but by then it was too late. Lost her forever.
Men don't "lose" things so no why would we go back. It wasn't a loss. We got something infinitely better out of it that we wouldn't have had we gone back
Men lose freedom when ever they commit. Thus the loss of freedom is the primary aspect they will notice first hence not coming back. I don't think women realize how attractive pure freedom is for men.
I'm sure it happens sometimes, but if I'm gone it's because she definitely was not a loss.
I'm also super hesitant to end relationships though. So it takes a lot for me to get to that point.
Hahaha! They know exactly what they “lost”. And that’s why they don’t go back.
Male or female doesn’t matter. If you think your ex should be chasing you, you think too much of yourself. Ell oh ell!No. Men usually hang in far past what is reasonable. If we leave a woman we either never had feeling for her or she has driven us away.
We never regret leaving.
yep... I just get a new set of keys
every timeWe really don't think like that (with rare exceptions)
I guess if what they lost was a good thing that was effective in their life, it's hard to believe they won't notice
If the woman brings drama and chaos to our lives instead of peace ✌️, we're very relieved to get away from her.
They won't go back if they think they can find someone better.
Yes. We live with the regret tho. Sometimes ego or pride just gets in the way
Usually just start getting ready to die and gives up on the idea of being lovable usually. Maybe that's just me
Sure we do but we have our pride so we won't go back
Yes but they’re clouded by pride
Yes, most times it is just too late to go back.
There is no going back. Only forwards.
If they let there pride get in the way
i remember, i never look back
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