I feel really fortunate that I've never been through this.
Mind, I leave ZERO doubt when I break up with someone.
My first ex cheated on me, I broke up with him that night, moved out two weeks later, and never spoke to him again. Of course it probably didn't help him that he tried to hide that he cheated from his family, friends, and even work - so when things came around where his folks expected to see me, obviously things didn't go well. From what I heard about his work, he was still deeply depressed four months in.
My second ex was nearly barred from entering Canada because he fucking thought immigration was like moving between states!!! He was so stupid even the US border guard was shocked by this and even asked me "this is who you wanna be with?" lmao. I made it clear when I later dumped him that he was nowhere near what I considered date worthy. We were a LDR over COVID, so tbf, we didn't see each other daily. I expected him to try to get back with me, but fortunately he never did. Not that it would matter, he might even have a warning on his file about crossing into Canada. Last I heard, he didn't have a job still and that's one of the easiest ways to avoid needing a Visa to visit from America. 🤣
My exgf is not likely to try again with me. It was clear to both of us by the end that were just incompatible as lovers. I was the more likely one to try again, but I'm finding I've been able to move on without much issue. I hope she does well, honestly. She's a lovely woman and a lot of fun.
Because when they left, they thought they found a better option but still keeping you in the list just in case things fucked up with the other person which happens a lot of times. I won’t give them any of my precious time. Once they ghosted me, the damage is done. It doesn’t matter what they say or do.
Could be a number of reasons. Maybe they thought the grass was greener on the other side. Maybe he was nailing some other chick, so now he’s done w her that’s why he came back. Maybe he went after another chick who rejected him so he came back. Maybe the girl dumped him after some time. Maybe he dumped her after some time. There’s a lot of possibilities. Maybe he realized he made a big mistake by leaving the first girl who was ten times better than all the other skanks he was trying to get w.
It's because they can't get anyone else. Average man struggles to get women so it can take a long time to replace the one he lost so he will usually circle back in the meantime. Yes he just want sex, if we was getting laid it is unlikely he would circle back to you.
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Because women take them back. It probably is for sex. But if if women didn't take them back they wouldn't do it so...
Why does a dog lick it's balls? Because it can.
I ain't trying to piss you off. I just ain't sugarcoating it. Guys will do what women allow.
Men are programed to provide, and don't hold on to hard feelings like women do. As such they forgive, forget and want to provide and secure again. For this reason breaking up for a guy is much more diffiuclt long term.
Almost every man comes back. It could be because you were the one that got away, which happens, but usually it’s because nothing else is working and there is comfort in the familiar
All the sex they didn't get when they left, but thought they would, wants them to be able to reset the health of their ego back to when they were with you.
I don't look back. If I am messaged, I message back, but I don't like going back because there's a high possibility things are just gonna be the same as always, with that person.
You probably think this way because you had sex with them.
I don't think it is really that. I tried to reach out a girl and I did it just for the hope that she might change her mind. I think I shouldn't have done it.
But I don't do it anymore. I didn't do it for my fiance even when she told me she expected me to do it. I was quite fed up with the drama. She did it like 3 times already and I was like this is enough drama for me.
t could be either because they haven't found someone better than you or because of the sexual aspect.
The other answers are right. They’re desperate.
I just move on.
But probably the ones that do are looking to get laid.
Treat yourself like a slut and they’ll treat you like one too. Golden rule.
Because we see that we liked you after we stopped talking to you and noticed you could be the one. At least we try but sometimes it don’t work
Depends on the girl and the guy. Odds are you dumped him or he is a fuck boy who hit and run.
It depends on the context. I have only held feelings for one girl personally.
Most of the time. Yes. It's to try and have sex again with you
You feel the separation sooner. He feels it later.
Those guys are just desperate and can't find a new pussy
it's usually the other way round with me lmao
u Is that your experience with the guys you date?
If only i knew
Trust me they don't always come back lol.
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