How long does it take for a man to realise what he lost?

[Anonymous]

[queenfreddie]

Have you ever heard the classic saying that girls will be upset and take time to process things before getting over it first, while guys will be happy at first, but then everything will finally hit him. The conclusion is that girls get over things first, while for guys, it may take a while. But by the time the guy goes about being upset about what happened and accepting it, the girl is already over it. I 100% believe that to be true. Me and my ex are still incredibly great friends, and this is the conclusion we came to concerning our breakup.

The days following it, I was miserable. It was hell, and it took me a few weeks to heal. My ex, on the other hand, said he felt such a weight off his shoulders. He went out and had fun with friends, did his own thing, had a great time. A few weeks after, however, he told me about how miserable he was. He felt so alone and even went through a fit of depression. I do believe that saying, or that there's at least some truth to it.

[Asker]

Yes I forgot that. I was in my first proper relationship for 9 months I told him we over didn’t explain why, he wanted to call I refused to, due to his on the sex offenders list I wouldn’t been able to get a job in childcare, than we got back together than he ended it he was so angry he said we done back told me to go Away so I blocked him. He would cheat behind my back with adults I never knew about it. He was a jerk to me. I’m glad he dumped me two days ago. He told me he didn’t want be with me so I’m moving on.. :-) I never cheated on him.

[queenfreddie]

Sounds like a real POS! Regardless, I'm sorry for your breakup and I hope you are doing well ❤️

[Asker]

He was a real piece of shit.. he would tell his friends that I’m controlling as if. I reported him to crime stoppers. So the police will find out that his been in contact with a underage child. My friend brought her 3 year old child to my house while he was their he hid in a room and coz now his friend slept over his house with her boyfriend his not allowed underage he get in shit he had 24 hours to report underage contact if he doesn’t his broken the order well he get a punishment.

[whatdoyouwantt]

Way too long time, if they ever realise. I don’t think it’s worth wasting your time on that

[Asker]

True I already moved on

[Diversity_Hire]

You assume that he lost something, and on top of that he would notice. You'd be best off to get over that little fantasy.

[exitseven]

Some guys will never realize it. Some may take a few days.