Guys, how long does it take for you to realize what you've lost?

[Anonymous]

So by reading some of the questions/answers on here, I see that many guys regret leaving their girl, or miss their ex when they are broken up. Some of you had said that you've cried over her, and wish you were back with her.

When two people are in a relationship, sometimes you don't know that that person was meant for you and so when you break up you start to feel really sad, lonely, regret it etc... (maybe not in the beginning?)

So I would like to know guys, how long after the break up do you start to realize what you had was good? Like when you start to realize you really want to be with her? You guys get what I'm saying right? :)

[Anonymous]

For me, I always knew I was onto a good thing. She came into my life like a whirlwind and completely changed me, wholly for the better. After she broke up with me, I knew immediately that I was losing somebody very special, but at the same time I knew it was nothing I had done. It may sound egotisitcal, but I know I treated her like a goddess, I did anything and anything that was in my power for her, and honestly probably still will do. It may or may not have ended up be a part of the problem, me doing that, but I know that I have at least set the bar almost impossibly high for any other guys that come after me :-). (on a side note, we did leave each other on good terms, we still love each other and we're still as close as any two people can be I feel :-) )

[Asker]

Aaawwww... that's so sweet!

[azzam]

If he loves you. He will never forget about you. Even though if he did''t show it but he keep thinking of you day and night...When my ex dumped me I felt that my whole life is came to the end .And here I am after six month can't get her of my mind and praying day and night to call me just once...And I'm in the place as you wondering if she still thinking of me...

[Asker]

Dang, isn't that hard? Thinking about that person constantly day and night and you are wondering if that person even thinks about you or has already forgotten about you. It hurts, I'm going through all that hard stuff.

[azzam]

I agree with you . You think about a lot of things what happened with us why he did this to me what's wrong with me..what I did wrong and you blam it all on yourself...and worth of all you cry and cry ...but at the end life will continue and we still here to live it...not saying it's easy but hey face it and always think you're better than him...and remmber the bad minutes it helped me I wish it can help you too....

[azzam]

I agree with you . You think about a lot of things what happened with us why he did this to me what's wrong with me..what I did wrong and you blam it all on yourself...and worth of all you cry and cry ...but at the end life will continue and we still here to live it...not saying it's easy but hey face it and always think you're better than him...and remmber the bad minutes it helped me I wish it can help you too...

[Asker]

Thanks :)

[humptydumpty01]

I've never broke up with anyone
But I suddenly realised some humungous loss that I incurred like in few minutes

[Anonymous]

It took two years for me to know that I lost my life to someone wasn't even worth it.