If a groom sleeps with a woman at the bachelor party, is that a sign he'll be unfaithful when married?

[Bethany22]

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So why do bachelor parties exist and are allowed, then? You guys are saying that men usually don't cheat on their fiancés that night? And that it's just strippers that are the worst thing that happens?

[AviatorTom]

Not necessarily. It depends.

Long time ago, my fiancée told me that I could have any woman I wanted before we got married, to get it out of my system, because once we are married, it would only be her. She even contacted two of my ex-girlfriends and arranged for me to meet them, separately, and to do whatever I wanted with them. I did meet them, and we talked about old times, but we didn't do anything, no sex. I was committed to my fiancée.

Some have said that she was testing me, and would have called off the wedding if I had sex with one (or both) or my exes. I don't think so, my fiancée was just being a realist, and giving me one last time to enjoy being single.

[SixFootSexy]

Quite the clever girl you married!

[RetroReviews]

I would say yes that's a sign I mean that's pretty low to be with another woman the night before your getting married it's sick and disgusting to me. If the woman finds out she should dump his ass. Go through the whole thing but leave him at the altar embarrass and humiliate his ass in front of everyone. On your way out tell everybody why tell them what he did that way he can be ashamed

[elizamichale1]

I hav been booked for many bachelor parties n in many of those the groom did have sex with me either coz his friends pushed him for it or on his own...

I still know a few of them who r happily married n friends with me

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho honey

[AmyHew1tt]

Obviously? Bachelor and bachelorette parties should not be the 'one last time' opportunity, wtf.

[OlderAndWiser]

The commitment to monogamy and faithfulness should have started long before the engagement. Any guy who uses a bachelor party as a contrived excuse to boink another chick is not ready to be a faithful husband.

[Unit1]

Boink 🙂
I like that one.

[superchan2011]

Yes. The groom should've been committed to the bride when they were still just boyfriend and girlfriend. From that moment on he should've only had eyes for her. Not to say that he wouldn't find other women attractive ever but the thought of actually fucking another woman should be nowhere in his mind. The only possible way that wouldn't be unfaithful is if the bride and groom decided to have an open relationship.

[Xoirwinkan]

It's a douche move, and cheating, but not necessarily. A bachelor party is a wild evening and certain extravagances are deemed acceptable so in his mind it could be a 'one last time' before the real thing with his new wife. Speaking of, I've heard quite a few bachelorettes sleep with the male strippers. Male strippers have certainly said a thing or two.

[handsomelad70]

As my mother used to say,"What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander." (Those Depression-era folk had all kinds of pithy sayings !!!)

[Xoirwinkan]

@handsomelad70 Nice

[handsomelad70]

Sure was. You should have been their daughter or son.

[Serkee]

Absolutely. If he's unfaithful before marriage, he's gonna be unfaithful after.

[OfMiceandMen]

I didn't want any strippers at my bachelor party. My buddies and I rented a cruise boat and went our for a sail. We just lots of food, games and fun.

[OfMiceandMen]

just had...

[OfMiceandMen]

My bad... I meant to add: Yes, I think if he sleeps with another woman at his bachelor party there is a high probability he will do it once he's married.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Let's put it this way: If you are dating a guy and he sleeps with someone else right before your first weekend together, will he be unfaithful? He already is and will be again. Run away!!!

[TheRealPepperPotts]

"Updates:
So why do bachelor parties exist and are allowed, then? You guys are saying that men usually don't cheat on their fiancés that night? And that it's just strippers that are the worst thing that happens?"

I just want to point out that you went from "if X, then is it Y?", got the obvious response, and then jumped to the conclusion that bachelor parties as an event translate to infidelity. Lots of guys go on rafting trips, waterskiing, paintballing, etc. for their bachelor party and don't even have strippers or immoderate drinking binges. I honestly think that there is more drama with bachelorette parties than bachelor parties, and I have brothers. The point of the party is to celebrate. Some people do that in irresponsible ways, others do it with integrity. Just my two cents...

[WindAtMyBack]

Yes, cheating is a sign that they cheat.

No, most guys do not cheat at bachelor parties. No, they don't usually have strippers.

It's just a party.

[IslaTheWitch]

it means he is already unfaithful... relationship doesn't start on wedding. They are already together

[Anonymous]

American life😂

by the way, Bethany you should ask for a raise from this platform they are not paying you enough.

[worldscolide]

Uh yes, cause he cheated. Guys like that are monsters.

[worldscolide]

@Bethany22 men aren't supposed to have sex during their bachelor party, only party.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. "one more time" mentality is an addict mentality.

[avery58]

I would never approve of a bachelor party with strippers anyway

[HelpfulWoman]

well duh. since for most thats still cheating...

[theycallme_jd]

All*
Not most.

[HelpfulWoman]

@theycallme_jd *most* since you don't know every dynamic.
plus you got poly and such to consider... bless your heart. but not your ignorance

[theycallme_jd]

poly? and what ignorance?

[HelpfulWoman]

@theycallme_jd polyamory. that you even had to ask what poly referred to shows the ignorance..

[theycallme_jd]

I don't have to know what polyamory is. That's not ignorance by chance. I simply don't want to know it and am fine without it, and have nothing with it. Anyway technically you're right about those people.

[HelpfulWoman]

@theycallme_jd XD you don't have to agree about it. but any basic human should know about it. making it ignorant by choice is even fucking worse XD

[NathanDavis]

lmfao... very good Jessica Simpson impression...

[handsomelad70]

I'd say yes. AT THE FREAKIN' BACHELOR PARTY, boyo?

[theycallme_jd]

I don't have an opinion on this but I'm posting this just to say that @HelpfulWoman has blocked me just because she disagrees with me on the fact that people can be OK without knowing the concept of polyamory.

[laly520]

yes def

he is supposed to be fully committed to her not sleeping with others already

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I agree that could happen.

[KittygosMeoWW]

that’s an obvious answer…. it’s a hell yes! He broke the promise of the engagement and general relationship if both parties agreed to

[stratford]

For most people that would be considered cheating. Why do you ask?