If a groom sleeps with a woman at the bachelor party, is that a sign he'll be unfaithful when married?

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AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily. It depends.

Long time ago, my fiancée told me that I could have any woman I wanted before we got married, to get it out of my system, because once we are married, it would only be her. She even contacted two of my ex-girlfriends and arranged for me to meet them, separately, and to do whatever I wanted with them. I did meet them, and we talked about old times, but we didn't do anything, no sex. I was committed to my fiancée.

Some have said that she was testing me, and would have called off the wedding if I had sex with one (or both) or my exes. I don't think so, my fiancée was just being a realist, and giving me one last time to enjoy being single.

RetroReviews · Accepted Answer

I would say yes that's a sign I mean that's pretty low to be with another woman the night before your getting married it's sick and disgusting to me. If the woman finds out she should dump his ass. Go through the whole thing but leave him at the altar embarrass and humiliate his ass in front of everyone. On your way out tell everybody why tell them what he did that way he can be ashamed

elizamichale1 · Accepted Answer

I hav been booked for many bachelor parties n in many of those the groom did have sex with me either coz his friends pushed him for it or on his own...

I still know a few of them who r happily married n friends with me

AmyHew1tt · Accepted Answer

Obviously? Bachelor and bachelorette parties should not be the 'one last time' opportunity, wtf.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

The commitment to monogamy and faithfulness should have started long before the engagement. Any guy who uses a bachelor party as a contrived excuse to boink another chick is not ready to be a faithful husband.

superchan2011 · Answer

Yes. The groom should've been committed to the bride when they were still just boyfriend and girlfriend. From that moment on he should've only had eyes for her. Not to say that he wouldn't find other women attractive ever but the thought of actually fucking another woman should be nowhere in his mind. The only possible way that wouldn't be unfaithful is if the bride and groom decided to have an open relationship.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

It's a douche move, and cheating, but not necessarily. A bachelor party is a wild evening and certain extravagances are deemed acceptable so in his mind it could be a 'one last time' before the real thing with his new wife. Speaking of, I've heard quite a few bachelorettes sleep with the male strippers. Male strippers have certainly said a thing or two.

Serkee · Answer

Absolutely. If he's unfaithful before marriage, he's gonna be unfaithful after.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I didn't want any strippers at my bachelor party. My buddies and I rented a cruise boat and went our for a sail. We just lots of food, games and fun.

WindAtMyBack · Answer

Yes, cheating is a sign that they cheat. No, most guys do not cheat at bachelor parties. No, they don't usually have strippers. It's just a party.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

it means he is already unfaithful... relationship doesn't start on wedding. They are already together

Anonymous · Answer

American life😂 by the way, Bethany you should ask for a raise from this platform they are not paying you enough.

worldscolide · Answer

Uh yes, cause he cheated. Guys like that are monsters.

Anonymous · Answer

Let's put it this way: If you are dating a guy and he sleeps with someone else right before your first weekend together, will he be unfaithful? He already is and will be again. Run away!!!

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah. "one more time" mentality is an addict mentality.

avery58 · Answer

I would never approve of a bachelor party with strippers anyway

HelpfulWoman · Answer

well duh. since for most thats still cheating...

Nikki1989 · Answer

I would assume that about a man long before any bachelor party.

NathanDavis · Answer

lmfao... very good Jessica Simpson impression...

handsomelad70 · Answer

I'd say yes. AT THE FREAKIN' BACHELOR PARTY, boyo?

theycallme_jd · Answer

I don't have an opinion on this but I'm posting this just to say that @HelpfulWoman has blocked me just because she disagrees with me on the fact that people can be OK without knowing the concept of polyamory.

laly520 · Answer

yes def he is supposed to be fully committed to her not sleeping with others already

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I agree that could happen.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

that’s an obvious answer…. it’s a hell yes! He broke the promise of the engagement and general relationship if both parties agreed to

stratford · Answer

For most people that would be considered cheating. Why do you ask?

jahaims · Answer

You are assuming all bachelor parties are the same.

butterfly_nake87 · Answer

I don't know why would a man or woman need to cheat for bachelor party. Why do someone has to celebrate bachelor party?

IWILLPLEASEYOU · Answer

My wife cheated on me because she was feeling like a good friend who had been in the same place to get a orgasm

FuqUFggt · Answer

If you get married as an American man you are stupid. Point blank period

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Yes, and same with bachelorette parties and the bride.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

These types of parties should not exist to begin with, bachelor and bachelorette parties.

pierre7i · Answer

You're darn tootin' right it is !!

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Absolutely. Cheaters don’t change.

WhitneySnow · Answer

That sounds like a red flag to me

hellothere90 · Answer

Obviously, is this even a question?

OtterMan68 · Answer

yes, yes it is

MsBrie · Answer

I would think so.

Staximus · Answer

That's a shitbag move

Kinkyhubby · Answer

It a very good indicator

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Absolutely it is.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

It's a sign you shouldn't marry him

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Most likely a pretty good indication

slatyb · Answer

Absolutely it is.

Lliam · Answer

Yes.

Apple1996 · Answer

Obviously yes

LazerBean · Answer

Yeah obviously

michol123 · Answer

Yes definitely

padrepiedra777 · Answer

100%

exitseven · Answer

I would say yes

JacobJordan · Answer

Of course.

Unit1 · Answer

duh!

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

That's obvious.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course.

Amur8711 · Answer

Yes!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it is

Anonymous · Answer

Likely yes

guyinterested · Answer

yes indeed

If a groom sleeps with a woman at the bachelor party, is that a sign he'll be unfaithful when married?

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