I'm leaning slightly to Men, only if they are in love. Women tend to be loyal to the extend on what a man can provide, if that ends she may look else where. Exp. Cat accident, illness etc..
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+1 yNow you do realize it’s near impossible to get an impartial truth on this.
Stereotypically men are more visually impulsive hence more prone to cheating. But that stereotype has been upended a bit in the last few years. I also question if some women cheat for some sort of warped self rationale that it makes them “equal” to men or some nonsense.
What bothers me most about cheaters is when they don’t own up got their bs but instead try to self-justify, rationalize or worse gaslight their partners. And from my observations women do this more to men than vice versa. That is they make up excuses for their bs when they precious egos can’t accept they did wrong. They struggle to take accountability.
That conceited attitude is often worse then the cheating incident in itself. Not saying guys can be like that. But really how often do you hear a guy say “well she made me feel special” or “you weren’t there for me” or some other crap when they get caught cheating?
Even if the man really feels that way he knows he will never get away with that excuse.
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@katebfun love the joker quote. That is SO sadly true.
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Honestly science has proven that humans are jot designed to be Monogamous, despite our fixation and obsession with loyal love. Being faithful and not cheating is a choice. Sometimes that choice is easier for couples because there's a level of friendship, compatability, trust, respect and communication. It'd not easy to be loyal if you don't respect and see yout partner as your equal.
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@katebfun you can say that but I don’t think civilization would of progressed the way it has if it wasn’t for monogamous relationships i. e. marriage. Not saying that to preach from the pulpit because I’m no saint myself. But there is something about commitment and nuclear families that has enabled civilization to advance.
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I hate to get bring in the racial dynamic but let’s consider the African American community and the insanely high single motherhood rates. That’s very detrimental for young black kids not having a responsible father as a strong male role model. But white people are starting to do this crap too.
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TY!!! Monogamy is a ridiculous fiction when measured against our biology.
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That's true unfortunately
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That is true but started in the 60s as a way to get better benefits and tax credits as unmarried head of household. Our own tax code caused it to start
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@DrPepper12 Lyndon B Johnson’s welfare policies really harmed African Americans. He was the forerunner on incentivizing single motherhood in the black community.
I know you and I have our differences on politics. But can we at least agree that what the democrats did back in the 60s was a very BAD idea for the black community? That doesn’t mean I don’t support civil rights. Of course I al 100% behind equal opportunity. Jim Crowe and segregation was very wrong as well.
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I agree. LBJ, Robert Moses, Nixon, RFK, and especially NY Senator Patrick Monahan did significant and lasting damage to the black community under the guise of paternalism. I'm not sure if it was votes as a motivator though, the blinding arrogance of paternalism is enough.
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The ongoing gentrification under the grotesque absurdity of "eminent domain" is also enough to make my blood boil. That is the Best example of local govt gone rogue and the fucking feds give them block grants to do it!! 🤬
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@DrPepper12 let me know what you think of this. It’s a fair discussion https://youtu.be/OE5s--e2L_s?si=6zOmS3vqN_KKPNub
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1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Loyalty is a choice and also a construct!.
Since People choose to not be loyal.
Construct Because it's, In our head and Each of us has different lines that we consider cheating!
Men's loyalty is Tested on 2 Major Parameters his wealth and (Sex + Family).- The richer the men gets, the lesser Probability of him being loyal. Once, a Men gets sex and has built and raised a family +18 years with a women, He no longer feels the need to be Loyal, because his Goals are attained.
Women Loyalty is Tested on 2 Major Parameters too - Her Beauty/Youth and Is a much richer better men available in line. - The more younger or Beautiful the Girl is, the Higher probability that she is not Loyal. Once, a women knows the Next Men in line is much Powerful/Rich/Good looking/ famous. She no longer feels the need to be loyal, because her goal of Attaining more Safety and security works much better with new man. He should be an upgrade.
This is precisely why Men date downwards and women date upwards in wealth and Age. Because most people make money over time..
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yAsking this is similar to asking “who sexually assaults people more” and the poll being 50/50 to men and women.
Of course men cheat more. Cheating is seen as a sexual gratification not based on emotions. Women are relationship oriented so therefore, if she is with a man, cheating takes a lot of effort as most women are highly emotional. Men aren’t highly emotional. They can sleep with a cracked out prostitute with 3 limbs if they’re horny enough. Women on the other hand, would be fine going celibate before even considering it.
Now, in terms of flirting, I think women flirt the most outside of the relationship.
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"cracked out prostitute with 3 limbs". I'm dead. ☠️🏴☠️🎯💯☑️
+1 yIt would make sense for women to be more loyal then men because.. men are constantly creating sperm while women only creates 1 egg per month.. women are looking for providers while men just need anyone to spread their seed for the population.
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Except for the fact that unloyal men gets a lot more consequences than a unloyal women meaning men lose more when they cheat. And if men are providers, it's not even easy to provide for one girl. While having more providers have a lot more benefits than having to provide for a lot.
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@Aiko_E_Lara That's only true in our modern social groupings and legal system. As a nomadic tribe member there would be no consequences to being promiscuous and in fact it would be encouraged.
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And the men have to burden himself to actually get multiple wives. As I have said, it's not even easy to provide just one especially if you're a nomadic tribe. Society just keeps evolving and that become a part of human nature.
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And by the way most men would die before they can even get a second wife.
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Diving into the deep end, are we? Loyalty, that treasured yet tricky little thing, isn't tied to gender like a bow. It's more about the individual's values, experiences, and, indeed, love. You're onto something with the love aspect, as when someone is heads over heels, their loyalty often skyrockets. But, like a plot twist in a rom-com, it's not just about what someone can provide materially but emotionally too. It's the emotional investment and mutual respect that water the seeds of loyalty. Both men and women can be fiercely loyal; our hearts don't check for gender before deciding to stick around. So, rather than focusing on who's more likely to stay put, let's celebrate those moments of loyalty that make us believe in the power of love and connection, shall we? It's less about men vs. women and more about finding someone who matches your vibe. Love, after all, is the real MVP here. 😉
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love how these bots fill an entire page blathering bullshit and ending up saying nothing to answer the question xD
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@genericname85 I HATE IT that GAG decided to use AI. Real people come here to get advice from real people. Horrible idea to use AI on a website that’s for romantic issues.
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@genericname85 I know right 😅🤣
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@genericname85
It's the dumbest thing this site has ever done. What cracks me up, is when the robots get likes.
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@blueonblack22
And yet they're not backing off. Crazy.
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558 opinions shared on Relationships topic. This is a hard one to measure. But I'm gonna go with women since women don't have urges to spread the seed.
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False.
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This stuff will always be impossible to truly quantify. I gave this answer because when we men cheat, it's usually nothing personal. But with women, it usually is. So though it's the same move, it has a different meaning. Not a deep one, but a shallow one. Which makes it easier to do more frequently.
4.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think men are more wild than women are because men have a lot more to lose, particularly in a divorce. In divorces in this country men lose their money, their property, their children and their jobs. Frequently. Women lose nothing and go on to find yet another man who is stupid enough to marry them.
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+1 yMost men are definitely more loyal than most women. A large percentage of women give all men a bad rap based a tiny minority of man whores. To most men, loyalty is a supreme value.
Contrarily, feminists have turned “loyalty” into a pejorative. If a woman is loyal, she must be subjugated. Her man must be a controlling narcissist. So few modern women hold loyalty as a value at all.10 Reply - 787 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
+1 yAssuming we are talking about loyalty within marriage / relationships to the men are generally more independent which lends itself to them being perceived as less loyal. Women generally more interdependent so more loyal. That’s generalized psychology but more often than not , true.
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+1 yNeither, both have the same capacity for deception. Women though are more likely to lie about and get away with being unfaithful than men. This doesn't mean that women are more disloyal, and not does it mean men are more disloyal, statistically speaking it's near 50/50
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+1 yEh. Not a gender thing. It takes a tragedy to find where people really stand in your life. You will find yourself surprised.
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You get it.
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Unfortunately.
+1 yI think we all know it depends on the person. You have to be a specific flavour of horrible to cheat on your partner. That horrible quality is dependant on personality, not gender
10 Reply523 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think Men are more loyal because we get less opportunities to Cheat.
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@brilliant reply. But now I can't say it. Bastard! LOL
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Interesting take and one that I believe to be true!!
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+1 ymen before marriage. women after marriage. the statistics are pretty damn clear on that. i won't bother to search them up again tho. was a long time ago i dealt with that. if you google male and female extradyadic behavior, you should find it.
10 Reply 10.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Women. Men are usually cheaters, or at least thinking about it.
20 Reply2.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Certain TYPES of people are loyal (male or female isn’t what determines it).
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+1 yGender is irrelevant. Humans by nature aren't loyal unless they are benefiting some how by that person or circumstance.
If it gets seriously dark and bad for you then you will be certainly abandoned.10 Reply
+1 yIt’s not really decided by gender but more what kinda person they are, upbringing, goals and values.
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+1 yMen are dogs. We all agree.
Now throw a woman and a dog into your cars trunk and leave them in there all day. See wich one is happy to see you when you let them out.10 Reply- 368 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
+1 yI’ll believe men are loyal when I see it there for I am saying woman are
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+1 yPeople who are shown loyalty as a virtue growing up are more loyal
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+1 yMen will say men and women will say women. You're just trying to make a poll that make both genders look biased.
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+1 yMen are loyal only if they're attracted to their partners while women are loyal if they're in love.
20 ReplyI don't think you can generalize about this. There are plenty of loyal men and women.
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+1 yWomen are but, women are also better at coverups too
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Facts!!! They remember all of their lives in sequence!! Men can't even lie about who is leaving the toilet seat up
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*lies
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+1 yIt’s situational. Both suck and screw each other equally.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yHere is the thing. It depends on the PERSON! Women are just more times more sneaky. Men are more act in the moment. There’s exceptions
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+1 yWomen are loyal to dick and men are loyal to boob
10 ReplyI think nowadays it's about even..
21 ReplyI think men are more expected to be loyal
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+1 yI would think it is about equal
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+1 yGuys are dicks. Women are rational m
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+1 yNeither are more loyal than the other
10 Reply 5.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Loyal has nothing to do with gender
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+1 yMen are definitely more loyal
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yloyalty is a masculine trait
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Puppy
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