What percentage of men do you think is actually loyal?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing a lot of cheating go on recently and noticed that a lot of men micro cheat. Online it says about 20% of men cheat and I would just like to know if you guys think that’s more or less and what percentage of men do you think stay loyal?

[HawkPerception]

No clue. This hookup culture is nuts to me. All of my 3 relationships I've had were long term, 2 three year relationships and 1 one year relationship. I don't believe they cheated on me and I most certainly didn't cheat on them. I'm a pretty big homebody and not the flirtatious type. I couldn't flirt if my life depended on it.

I think that the types of men that women seem to be attracted to (highly confident, smooth with words) are most likely the types to cheat because they know they can get women. It's very simple... for both males and females. The amount of attention one gets usually directly correlates to their ego and how much they think they can play around. I'm not saying everyone that gets attention is like that, but there's definitely a correlation.

[Unit1]

That depends what "qualifies" as cheating.

Is watching porn cheating? ~80% of men are cheaters. There is a reason Pornhub is ranking high in most visited websites https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most-visited_websites

Is looking at other beautiful women cheating? All men, who are not homosexual or total hermits are cheaters

Is complimenting other women cheating? ~60% of men are cheaters

Well?

[Asker]

Depends on what individual person counts as cheating in the relationship. For some people pornhub doesn’t count as cheating but complimenting another girls boobs is. Pornhub being the top 14 on the most visited websites is concerning

[Unit1]

Well, there you have it.

[etsylo]

I've seen a lot, and 20% is honestly a huge number. im so glad mine has been loyal to me. it's very hard nowadays to have someone faithful at all, people tell white lies a little too much now.

[Asker]

Yeah exactly it’s so hard to find loyal men nowadays with basic morals. And it’s honestly bare minimum to say that we are grateful for a loyal partner because all of them should be loyal in your monogamous relationship. Cheating is just so normalized.

[etsylo]

I know!! It's so weird expecting someone to be loyal when that's like, already given once in a relationship but it's like some people don't care. I know what it was like to be cheated on and it sucked. I was blessed with an amazing man that honestly, I would love to spend my life with despite being young. Given we have been dating for years, but he's never wronged me. People like that are so hard to find and I don't know why.

[Asker]

Omg I’m so happy for you guys I hope you guys get married 😭😭

[etsylo]

THANK YOU ME TOO!! One day we'll get married but for now we're taking it easy!! he's a keeper but we are LDR, we're to meet soon though and I hope after that everything still runs smoothly 💪

[Asker]

Yeah just be patient and I hope everything works out 🫶

[wolfcat87]

Most men would cheat if given the opportunity. I tested this theory a lot when I was younger. Maybe a quarter wouldn't.

[Asker]

This is scary information. I wish they stood up to their morals more but you’re also very pretty so I’m guessing if you’re pretty it’s harder to say no?

[wolfcat87]

Thanks, it's possible. I think a lot of men know they will never get to go after girls who are normally out of range for them to get, but given the chance they would do it. The mentality is more of "I may never get this chance again and would regret it if I don't". I get it, but it's upsetting. There are definitely men who cheat with uglier women than they are with as well. For the thrill, just because they can, etc. Men are strange.

[DarkLegacy]

Lol and you have been defending your cheating, this site is full of female hypocrites.

[wolfcat87]

@DarkLegacy Who?

[wolfcat87]

@DarkLegacy I never said that I cheat.

[Asker]

She said she would mess around and ask if they would cheat. She didn’t go through with it

[wolfcat87]

Exactly

[fuddly]

@wolfcat87

Aye you saying when you were younger guys would cheat on their partners with you?
And only 25% didn't cheat?

Either that, or guys cheated on you a lot
But how would you know?

[wolfcat87]

@fuddly I was very flirty when I was in high school and made a game out of flirting with men and seeing how many would agree to have sex with me even if they were in relationships. 25% is generous based on my personal experience with how many said yes and were ready to have sex right away. I almost never went through with it. But, I would definitely say that current cheating rates would be much higher for men if cute girls were ready and willing to have sex with every man in a relationship. The men are definitely not saying no. The girls are.

Most said yes very easily. A smaller percentage said "I really shouldn't" but could be coaxed into saying yes without much effort. A very small percentage said hell no. Only one guy ran and told his girlfriend on me. I thought that was really sweet and a pleasant surprise.

[jennifer_bloom]

Men who marry women they love deeply have lower rates of cheating.

[Billlewis]

I think far more women cheat than guys, but I also think that the vast majority of relationships are better served by the woman having an intimate sexual relationship with other guys than the reverse.

[Asker]

This is an interesting take, one that I’ve never heard

[Billlewis]

I mean, think about it -- it's much easier for a woman to have a sexual relationship with someone other than her boyfriend or husband than it is for a guy.

[Asker]

No you’re 100% right I always think about how easy it is for a women to cheat bc of the so many options that we have. However the loyal ones don’t follow through. I find it interesting that even when women have much more options than the majority of men women still cheat less than men

[Billlewis]

They probably cheat less than men because they don't really have to cheat to begin with ❤️
I'd love to chat with you about this if you have a moment.

[Hulk_kitty]

Women cheat more than men, all studies say that. But regardless of that, Sorry women are too blame for a lot what happens in the dating world. They hold so much power over us, when it comes to sex.

But I think its important to remember, lets not give any gender a bad reputation or generalise the opposite sex. I prefer to judge the individual, not their sex, race, religion.

There bad things going on every where. I personally don't care who cheats more, I just want to meet a nice girl, that's were my focus is on. I don't worry about the bad apples out there. I just want my lottery ticket ( my girl), every thing else is not in my view.

[wolfcat87]

What studies say that? I've never seen even one.

katiecouric.com/.../

www.choosingtherapy.com/.../

discreetinvestigations.ca/.../

www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/infidelity

[Asker]

Your support andrew tate you cannot form an opinion

[DarkLegacy]

@Asker he has just done so you dictator

[Asker]

I’m just messing but seriously it’s so hard not to hate on someone who supports andrew tate

[Hulk_kitty]

I actually hate andrew tate, I think likes the sound of his voice.

[Hulk_kitty]

@wolfcat87 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2RJw7I1kT9k

wolfcat, I am not saying women cheat more, even a lot of women say this. Plus I don't care which gender. It doesn't make a difference to me.

[Hulk_kitty]

anyway I am not going to get into big debate about the issue, I just gave my opinion on the subject. I have better things to worry about, than who cheats more.
I just worry about, bettering my life, and any girl I meet, is welcome to join me , if they cheat on me, they are finished, bye bye. I don't care about the numbers when it comes to genders.

All I know society as whole doesn't have values or losing their values. We are all sluts, hoes, male and female, no gender is a saint. Cheating is cheating regardless who does it more. Blaming the gender for cheating more, is a bad excuse not to date, or cause someone is bitter for been hurt.
Good bye bitter people

[IslaTheWitch]

Most of them, but we hear only about cheats, not about healthy relationships.

I personally think that in both genders, the percentage of cheaters doesn't go higher than maybe 5%, but rather less.

[GreenLanternI0I]

No, stats are correct, 80%+ of men are loyal to the core, the problem is they cannot find the right type of woman. Why? because loyal men are boring men, they don't rock girls world by being exiting, dangerous, adventures and always living on the edge while taking girls on their ride or die type of lifestyle. Always remember 95% of women are trying to get top 15% of men. Or in your case 20% and top 20% of men will NEVER be loyal, because why should they? they are living their sexual life to the fullest. Top 20% of men bed more women than combined bottom 80%. Top 15% of men are living a dream and 95% of women are stubbornly refuse to lower their standards until they hit the 30-35 year old wall. Then they have no choice, but to Significantly lower their standards and expectations.

[Asker]

So what if that 80% of men somehow got a girlfriend and another hot girl throws themselves at that guy. Would he still be loyal or just turn into the top 20% of men?

[GreenLanternI0I]

You cannot brake loyalty with a flesh, that is not how it works.

[Asker]

I’m sorry what?

[GreenLanternI0I]

By flesh I mean throwing a Hot women at him. If a person cheats on you, he never was loyal to you in the first place.

[wolfcat87]

That's a lie. I used to ask men if they would cheat with me as a game when I was younger, and almost every one said yes. Only one ever said no.

[syncheart]

I'm not sure what you mean by "micro cheat." That sounds like Matthew 5:27-28.

27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’[a] 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

If that is what you mean by "micro cheat". Then I will say that 100% of all sexually capable men are cheating, even when they don't want to.

[Joshydavid25]

I don't know, I couldn't begin to guess.. I haven't met most men.. I've been around a lot of guys always oogling the next thing with a big booty walking by.. But women do the same thing to men (and some women) too.. I'd say most people in action are faithful.. So I probably agree with that number..

[BoopBoopBeep]

Micro cheat? Really? Is that like when you get the midget hooker and get her a little pregnant?

[_Maya_]

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[Hanrej]

100% if by cheating you put in the ones who enjoy attention from other females, smiles a bit more than they should during a conversation or flirt even if subconsiously.

[exitseven]

I think 20% is about right. I know guys that have cheated but not a lot.

[RingOfFire]

There's an old saying that men are only as faithful as their options.

I don't know many men who can resist some girl dangling her wares in front of him and inviting him to indulge. It's hard to escape millions of years of evolution that programmed men to be that way.

[Asker]

So does that mean if a guy gave me the option of inviting himself to me I should go ahead and do it? It’s evolution right?

[RingOfFire]

No. Women are programmed differently. Their attraction is less about the physical than men's. Men are programmed to react mush more to the physical. As another saying goes, men think with the wrong head.

[Anonymous]

Whatever percentage of men are truly men of God are the ones that will be loyal.

[LiamJHayden]

A high % of both men and women are unfaithful in allegedly committed relationships.

[AmeerX]

I am not going to say things but does loyalty pay off. I get nothing for being loyal so far. Just get bitches who go and marry someone else in the end

[Asker]

Have you been cheated on? Loyalty 100% pays off. And even if you do get cheated on it’s not good to get revenge and cheat back. Stay true to your morals and you just might find someone just as loyal as you. Then you can marry her :)

[AmeerX]

Easy for you to say. I am Virgin.. I am invited for hanky panky and sex since university but for marriage no girl wants it

[AmeerX]

I don't cheat or do revenge. Not worth my time

[Asker]

That’s good. It’s rare for people to wait for marriage these days so props to you. You just need to find the right girl! I’m guessing one that also wants to wait for marriage

[AmeerX]

Yeah, that's great 👍

[KrakenAttackin]

20% is probably a fair number and they are not hard to spot.

[DarkLegacy]

Women cheat more and think they are justified, it is a feminist myth that men cheat more. That figure is low, it is more then 50% for women.

[captain_voidwalker]

20% of men are probably damn dirty cheaters. But those are also the only men women are willing to date. The other 80% of men are invisible to women.

[Vegasrunner]

Yes, because that is the percentage that can. Most men can't.

[Anonymous]

Yeah i'd say about 80% of men being loyal is accurate. If it seems larger it's because women tend to prefer the men who are unfaithful

[Anonymous]

Of the men women want to be with... Close to zero percent. The betas in waiting close to 200%

[BCA6010]

20% is probably about right.

[boggboss]

What's micro cheating sorry

[Asker]

They are actions or behaviors by your partner that make you question their emotional or physical commitment to your relationship. So it might not be as big as sleeping with someone but it could instead be something small that you don’t tell your partner or something that you wouldn’t do if your partner was around.

[boggboss]

Is that not just cheating any action one has to hide in a relationship or wouldn't be happy with their partner also doing as far as I understand is simply cheating and would vary from relationship to relationship even somthing as small as talking to someone of the other sex can be seen as cheating if inside the relationship that's made to be a boundary

[Asker]

Yes, it is still cheating and it depends on the boundaries you make between you and your partner. I think the word micro cheating is just used as a way to say “they cheated on me but in a subtle way”

[boggboss]

Fair enough if micro cheating as u say is involved I would bump up the numbers to maybe 40ish percent of relationships have a partner that do this

[aceleon]

lower than female cheaters you can be sure.

[Drumlin2001]

Probably similar % to women

[fuddly]

I guess maybe 80% loyal for life

[Cheerfull009]

It depends upon the culture and country