Which gender has a more positive view of the other gender in general?

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CalmUntilAbused · Accepted Answer

I think men still have a more positive view of women than women have of men. At the very least, hate against women is much less institutionalized that hate against men is. There is not a single organized group of men focused on spreading hate against women, while man-hating feminist group are pretty common, and if we consider feminists as a uniform group, they are still mostly man-haters.

Some might say incels are hostile against women, but this claim is invalid in at least two ways. First, incels are not a group organized around some key values. They are literally men who are celibate against their will, including all the friendzoned men who are definitely not women-haters. Thus, second, there is no uniformity among incels regarding their attitude towards women, with some of them actually being desperate for female attention and a fringe group of utterly disillusioned individuals taking part in uncoordinated outbursts of anti-female violence.

How about the MGTOW, then? Yet again, they are not hateful towards women in particular. Instead, they despise the current model of a Western society that includes incentives for the persecution of men, both formal (through legal means) and informal. Thus, their key idea is for men to abandon the man-persecuting societies, forcing them to collapse. This abandonment of society supposedly requires the abandonment of all relationships with women first. However, the abandonment of all relationships with women is not out of spite, but out of perceived necessity. Now, let's be honest, while not impossible, it is extremely difficult to abandon the society without abandoning all relationships with women. One would have to abandon all short-term relationships with women, as the society works as an important proxy for these relationships most of the time. As for long-term, serious relationships, there is only one kind of such relationships that can be upheld without the society, namely the true, traditional, purely Catholic (or otherwise religious) marriage and the resulting family. This kind of relationships include absolute exclusivity and thus can in theory be upheld without the society acting as a proxy, with God Almighty being the judge of all internal disputes. However, any potential children would be cut off from the society as well, which is not really a good idea. They should learn about it from experience, not just from dark tales told by their parents. To ensure the proper upbringing of these children, an alternate society would have to be established, with this kind of families only interacting with each other, which is technically possible, but not exactly a piece of cake. The MGTOW decide to reject this attitude, assuming it's based solely on wishful thinking.

Therefore, incidents of men spreading hate against women are mostly isolated, while women do have their own groups dedicated to spreading hate against women. Even if the numbers were somewhat equal, there is still definitely more institutional support behind women hating men than the other way around.

Zenpanda · Accepted Answer

These days neither.
The loudest of each gender has divided the genders enormously.
Too many men have hurt and defiled women for their own pleasure.
Women should be submissive housewives that are just there to serve, look pretty and give the man pleasure.
If not there are too many men who will take the pleasure part by force.
So now women fear men and I don't blame them.
On the women's side there are the women whom see themselves as royalty, a man is a walking high fashion wallet. You only hold value if you have more money than the average man could dream of earning.
Don't show emotions, be strong, do whatever she wants.
So men don't even want to try, scared of being mocked.

The way we treat eachother is horrible thanks to these types of people.
A lot of the time we don't even want or dare to interact and it's sad.

If I'm out at night and see a woman I just know that chances are that she might feel scared or anxious of me.
It's sad, I'd never hurt a woman, but she doesn't know that.
There's a good chance that she has already been bothered by men if not worse.

I know it's a fantasy but I wish men who bother women or worse have a symbol appear on their foreheads.
So a woman knows whom to avoid and its an easy way for the cops to arrest the ones who've done worse than just bother.

Cute_Miss_Laura · Accepted Answer

Frankly, I think that both sexes have terrible attitudes towards members of the opposite sex! I'm seeing countless men referring to women in their early twenties who are dating, as being only out for a “high value man”, and only looking for what he can give her. I also hear women referring to men as “losers, “all rapists”, cheaters, (when stats for cheating by gender are pretty even), worthless, and dangerous! It’s a fantastic question to flare-up the “gender wars”, in terms of online in-fighting among GaG users though.

The one thing we need right now, is for both genders is to begin re-learning how to respect, and be respectful to, and even admire each other. I love men! Guys rock! Seriously, if it was not for my boyfriend, as soon as I saw a spider, I would have to move out! Men are in serious trouble in the west, and we all need to stop the in-fighting, and look at the positives in the other side XX/XY line, or the west won’t die, it will have been murdered!

Laura 🤗 🥰

sheenagwapa · Accepted Answer

in my country i think men have positive views on women. men are the ones who usually cheat. they are spoiled. women on the other hand a lot of women are willing to work ( it is usually the men who stopped them from working) and at the same time take care of the family.

a lot of women here though are feisty. women are submissive because the Bible says women should be submissive hence a lot of women would be fine being a traditional wife but feisty because the Bivle also says that men and women are equal.

i live in the Philippines and it is a country highly afffected by religion which is Christianity particularly Catholic Christians. it's like Indonesia or Iran where the country is highly affected by religion which is Islam. Philippines is like the Christian version

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I don’t really know what the average man thinks of women, or what the average woman thinks of men. I do know what loud mouth complainers of both sexes say about each other but i don’t assume they speak for the reasonable members of their species.

Avicenna · Answer

I'd guess that men have a more positive view of women

Bondage_Bruce · Answer

Ah the ol' he said she said. Well I say whomever embraces their inferior status and offer themselves to my boundless desires, they hold a special place in my world. It's the ones who accept their submissive nature, allow me to exert my power over them through when released from their cages or locked closets, the ones who serve as human toilets, these are the true gems.

If you want me to have a positive view, then adore my physique with breath control, mild pain, and electric stimulation. Come histher and ride my crops, take a caning or maybe something more creative like pegging, gigantic dildos, or speculum insertion. When you're nice and dialted, let's shove an entire bag of ice in your quivering anus.

Levin · Answer

To be fair, I try and keep a balanced view.

Whenever I go to gigs, there's a fair few female fronted bands, who obviously talk about the terrible ways that men act. And of course, maybe this is just. But you know behind it there's a fair bit of man-hating.

I can see that women have it bad in some regards, but also have a lot of privelege in others. So I don't quite accept that men are simply the oppressors. Maybe historically.

Many men can be apeish. But overall there's lots of good man who work hard, and we shouldn't be all tarred with the same brush. We feel just as deeply as women, too. Sadly, we often have to repress it. I've worked with enough men, to know that it doesn't go anywhere. Except into one's subconscious, where it stays.

Unfortunately positive male and female role models seem to be lacking. We can see the destruction and deconstruction of traditional gender roles in society. It hasn't brought us the utopia we were expecting.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Men and women can view the other through rose tinted glasses. “Liking” someone often makes us view what that person does or says as more positive and vice versa , we are automatically more critical and suspicious where we don’t like or don’t get on with a person. What makes us do this could be something obvious like sexual attraction or less so like personal characteristics , sense of humor , confidence.
People also apply attitude and experience in the judgement process too whether consciously or not and form a view of “that” type of person , stereotypes.
I don’t think anyone could ever definitively say what gender has a more positive view or bias

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Men, it's not even a contest.. Seeing as men and women prefer the company of women, and women have all the programs, and are looked at as more moral and innocent than men are.. They are also seen as more trustworthy in certain situations than men, and are not seen as useless, but dangerous almost akin to animals that need to be trained.. Most women don't have a generally negative view of men, but feminism is prominent in our culture, so of course men have a more positive view of women than women do men..

RingOfFire · Answer

Women resent men because they ultimately have all the power. What most people don't understand is that happens because they are physically dominant.

It's a rule of nature and evolution. The physically strongest are always in control. It's true of countries, those which have the strongest militaries are always dominant and it's true of genders.

So women are in a constant state of resentment. They've been complaining about it as far back as history goes... feminism is not new. Unfortunately they have no remedy.

ManOnFire · Answer

Men tend to think more positively of women than women think of men. Men also think more positively of women than women think of other women. Contrary to feminist ideology, women are more misogynist than anyone, and of course they are "misandrist" as well.

DarkLegacy · Answer

For the first time on a gender poll women are telling the truth. men are too easy on women and this is the main problem in society. They need to be more like me and most men on this site and tougher on women. There a fair few white knights on here i know and to many in society.

Anonymous · Answer

the answer is men and it's not even close. the simping epidemics are off the charts while "pick me girls" are constantly being called out and attacked

https://www.youtube.com/embed/F7dxUka_apo

people who sit on the fence to avoid stirring controversy and try to compare the large number of feminists to the small number of anti-feminists are being delusional and disingenuous

too busy trying to play the politically correct game with "both sides are just as bad" BS

4ngelic · Answer

neither. you have hoardes of women going on about how man all suck and are all dumb evil child rapists that are good for nothing and worthless. and you also have hoardes of men going on about how women are nothing more than dumb inferior illogical evil cum holes

Anonymous · Answer

Men. For 1 reason. I'm in the USA. Both genders here have more than their fair share of "the other gender sucks" people. But you always hear about "passport bros." But not "passport sisters." Why? Because men here will freely acknowledge that there is something SERIOUSLY wrong with American culture... and while their blame goes heavily to the other gender for it (whether misguided or not)... they DO acknowledge that women outside the USA can be, and many times are, vastly different. Women here on the other hand, when they ramble on about how much men suck... it's ALL men... even if they've only spent time in 2 states in the USA as their platform for what they know "globally."

DJB72 · Answer

As witness by the number of women who would rather be killed and eaten by the bear than meet a man they don't know in the woods, men have a more positive view of women. Barely.

Feminist freaks with blue/pink hair are welcome to feed the bears. In fact I encourage it.

Katebfun · Answer

Some men are so blinded by just, manipulation from an attractive woman. I believe men give far too much credit for a woman's looks vs her heart, personality and spirit. Just makes you do dumb stuff. Men should have better discernment and judge accordingly.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I think the distrust and disrespect flows pretty equally in both directions now. A decade ago and longer, men definitely favored women more than the other way around. It might still be that way, but someone would need to drum up some pretty convincing evidence for my purposes. Ell oh ell!

ZackBan · Answer

It seems more and more both genders have negative views of one another for some reason.

But I do believe men are still slightly more positive about women, though that's largely due to men having absolutely no standards when it comes to partner selection and would park their ride in the first available spot that lets them

strateguy632 · Answer

in general can't generalize. some men and women had bad experiences so lack a positive view of the opposite/second gender but others in each, still have a positive view.
news companies emphasize the negative in men toxic masculinity etc. as did gilette that is one of the multi pronged attacks on western culture called "woke".

SolitarySolace · Answer

I have no idea why but men have a far more positive view of women than women do of men and in my opinion the men’s positive views of women are extremely unfounded. I bet you men can’t explain why they have a positive view of women other than women are sexy and attractive and fun to fuck 🤷🏻‍♂️

Unit1 · Answer

they're both terrible. "Men" say women are hypergamous gold diggers. "Women" say men are Cheaters and pigs. Ugh 🤮 I'm doing my part in loving and adoring women. I love girls and women very much.

genericname85 · Answer

i think men get more "extreme" when it comes to hating on the other gender. but i think qualitatively more women think that bashing men is ok. it's even somewhat of a social expectation that men will just take bashing without fighting back.

Raaj4you · Answer

Men have more positive view about women. I have this positive view about women bcoz I love my mother. I still remember my school days, most of the female teachers were so nice to me.

Unfortunately, modern girls / women think that men are their biggest enemies. I lost my respect for modern girls/ women.

DishLady · Answer

I can't speak for my entire gender, however in my opinion -- from my observations and from my own experience -- women tend to give guys more chances to "fix" themselves. Guys can be very unforgiving.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

It's definitely men. You'll rarely see a man parading around saying we don't need women and fuck all women or we hate all women. Women say this about men all the time though

HawkPerception · Answer

Nowadays, I think both genders have extremely negative views towards each other. I'm not sure any one of them is any more or less hateful towards each other.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I have no clue. Depends on their attitude and thoughts about them. Some are probably fine and then others can go to the extreme side of toxicity.

AngryCarl · Answer

Men are beginning to wake up and smell the coffee, but women straight up hate men, always have done. Now I know there was some friction over the witch trials and so forth.

wiltingrosepetal · Answer

Genuinely neither. I'm curious to know the poll results but we hate each other too equally to pick a side

nastyb · Answer

I think that women take more BS. But are less likely to complain about it. Men take less BS from women but are much more likely to complain about it.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Both can be as bad or as respectful as the other. Seems to be whoever reaches out with which attitude first.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Sadly women are too easy going with men which results in rapes and domestic assaults. Women need to choose far more wisely.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

There’s always a few bad apples, but I feel like there’s proportionately more woman-hating incels than man-hating feminists. I mean, I have a number of lesbian and outspoken feminist friends that don’t hate guys.

loves2learn · Answer

Females are way more positive than males. Period. End of story.

summiter · Answer

I think men have a more positive view of women

Radiate143 · Answer

I would say men generally have a more positive view of women but they have a worse treatment of them.

handsomelad70 · Answer

We boys have a more positive view of girls, if only because beautiful ladies get us all boy-eyed. (Though of course, there's plenty of beefcake for the ladies.)

grega239 · Answer

Probably men. I mean we aren't the ones sayimg we'd rather meet a wild animal than a woman in the woods and shit like that

Blacksnake285 · Answer

That’s hard to say there’s probably more negative than positive because it’s a hateful world. More women would probably say something positive and women hate men. If a man says something positive about a woman other men would call him a simp

onedarkcloud · Answer

I think that women have a more positive forgiving view of guys because they know guys will trip over their dicks

KlinkyCoder · Answer

But which gender is it more socially acceptable to say is trash or other rather harsh terms?

LiamJHayden · Answer

Both have large shares of both the cynical and the naive.

OtterMan68 · Answer

If you go by GAG, men have a much dimmer view of women!

Anonymous · Answer

I'll give you a clue. One of those genders can't even have a positive view of themselves. They have to use makeup, cosmetic surgeries, surgical enhancement, constant validation from social media just to feel normal.

MacDaddyRico · Answer

Men who identify as women have a very negative view of women.

OddBeMe · Answer

I don’t think the average person bases it off gender.

krin_m · Answer

I personally have a very positive view of women!

Spatmates25 · Answer

None is same both gender has more negative then ant positive.

boobliker · Answer

Men I think!!!

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Men.

In_Trance · Answer

I think it's equal

Anonymous · Answer

Anyone

Anonymous · Answer

I say men.

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