Do you know the moment you see someone if you want to be their friend or not?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Bondage_Bruce]

Ah, the complex dance of dominance and submission called friendship. It's much like intricate rope bondage.

When I cast my gaze upon a potential subject, I first observe their physical form, seeking signs of strength and endurance – qualities that would serve them well in my realm.

You may think this lofty criteria would limit my circle of friends, but fear not! There are many ways to demonstrate friendship. Perhaps they exhibit grace while donning shackles or maintain poise within a cage. Maybe they find beauty in pain during sensory play or can recite my teachings without faltering.

Regardless of method, each successful candidate must embody reverence and obedience, affirming my status as supreme Master.

[Purpleronnie]

WTF? Maybe if I was literally the loneliest guy on the planet.
I don’t decide friendship on looks , who does this?


True “Friends” show themselves to you over time they have qualities and characteristics you admire , they support you , comfort you , stands you when it’s deserved and tell you when your wrong etc etc etc This is not something you can just see and know from a cursory glance !

[avery58]

I'm surprised at the results. Are people really that shallow? I don't give a damn what a person looks like when it comes to friendship. Personality and compatibility are what makes a friendship for me.

[DishLady]

Sort of… I’ll put it a different way. I know from the first moment whether I want to speak to a person or not. “Friends” takes an extra beat.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I can tell if I don't want to be their friend, but I can't tell if I do.

Dealbreakers to socializing often present themselves immediately (for example if I see them smoking), but things in common (such as being an artist or gamer) are usually not initially noticable.

[DarkLegacy]

No one should be deciding their friends based on looks, however this would not surprise me in a modern fashion statement world. I see groups of friends together that look like clones of each other, just because they have to match so it looks good. In particular they will do this for photos and social media.

[Anonymous]

As someone who was a nerd and always socially outcasted, in any new social situation I would immediately become friends with anyone else who was a social outcast like me.

We would recognize eachother from a distance and just know that we were going to be the only person who wants to talk to the other one since people tend not to like social outcasts.

[dustybiker2]

My closest friends took time. But ended to be close bond.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Many voted yes, interesting. I am not one of those :(

[laly520]

no

I won't know without interacting with em n getting to know em first

[fuddly]

Sometimes i dislike someone

But if I'm working with them i forget about it and we might go to lunch

But usually end of day i will dislike them

[jahaims]

If you determine friendships based on appearance you're a moron

[DarkLegacy]

Well said

[handsomelad70]

Sometimes, but I usually take time to know the person before I befriend them.

[LiamJHayden]

No, but I often disqualify people immediately if they give off a certain vibe.

[elaphe]

Of course not. You don't know someone's personality or character just by appearance.

[ohvanillalattegal]

No, it takes time for me

[boggboss]

No my friendships are not based on looks

[Kelley1]

Yes, if he is hot.