How do I stop being afraid of getting a job?

[Anonymous]

I've had lots of jobs, and most of them turned out to be alright, but a few were really stressful. Mostly because I'm a slow learner and my coworkers and supervisors would get upset with me, and I feel like an outcast. I'm also afraid to make mistakes and embarrass myself.

[lightbulb27]

I can relate a little...

You are going to have to put in more hours and effort. you may need to repeat things, practice, and really focus. Something is up in your brain and it's you or it's lifetime traumas piling up.

Find God, go to Church and release some of those fears and replace with love for Christ. That will help.

Accept you have gifts to give and contribute in other ways, find those and a job that can capitalize on them. Some people are more detail oriented but slow, others think fast... but make mistakes. everyone is different.

You may have to explore different jobs to see what works or maybe work for yourself and be your own boss. You can double check your work or have someone else do that for pay.

[RavVid]

I can see that. Difficult situation because you can't say that at an interview or they might not employ you.

I have seen people be slow because they hate making mistakes. The other end is some people take the view they will mostly get it right with quick decisions.

I think you might find your fear is getting in the way and that is what you need to deal with.

[AI Opinion]

It’s important to build confidence gradually. Reflect on past successes and focus on what you did well. Embrace a growth mindset; understand that everyone makes mistakes and they’re part of learning. Break tasks into smaller, manageable pieces to avoid feeling overwhelmed. Seek feedback actively, and view it as a tool for improvement, not criticism. Additionally, consider seeking environments that value diversity in learning styles, which can boost your confidence. Surround yourself with supportive colleagues or mentors who encourage learning and growth.

[exitseven]

Starting a new job can be stressful. There is always a lot to learn and you do not really know anybody. I have changed job a few times. What I do now is think about how many times I have started a new job and I always was able to figure it out. You got this.