I think this boys carful thoughtfulness is impressive adorable. Which part of video are you most impressed with (if any)?

[VIVANT]

https://youtube.com/shorts/xj3q98quwXs?feature=share

To me it’s not the answers but the nuance in the process that gets me. He is rather sophisticated for his age. Or maybe I underestimate kids now 😬

I’ll share my favorite part later 😊

[RosieMelts]

Lol Steve HARVEY 🤣 he said “you’re not looking for that spit now but OMG you’re gonna look for it..” later ofc 😂

He’s a smart kid who was allowed to engage his own thought process without feelings of not good enough from parents or other kids. He has freedom of expression and follows respectfully accredited to I’m not sure what lol

The whole video impressed me with his calm explanation and his facial expressions. Most kids talk about items in their world- toys and such, and they can have impressively deep thoughts but the props to their story is items catered to their world and words that are limited due to their newness in the world.

This kid was able to use mature language and talk about adult things showing he understood it probably because his parents were open with him in a healthy and non persuasive way 😂.

Nice job and parenting on their part, and great mind he’s got so far 😊🤝

loved every party of it, honestly.

Thanks for the share Vivant! 😊👍

[VIVANT]

Honestly bus facial expressions snd the second time he said @well… 🧐 “ like he was explaining the inteuvadues of important consequences to a class of adults lol def his own Ted talk, it wasn’t even so much him not liking kissing, it could’ve been ANYTHING. The way he was so serious & with humility lol

watched it so many times 😂

I agree he obviously had room to process things his parents respect him. I was going in thinking it was stayed but no one can teach those expressions. ♥️

[RosieMelts]

Yesss Definitely not staged 😂 and he truly needs his own Ted talk Im excited for that lol buddy 😁🎊

[RosieMelts]

little* 😂

[Samantha_17]

Kids should never been underestimated - especially the kids of this age and time. They know everything :)

[VIVANT]

Indeed ! 😅

[WindAtMyBack]

"Or maybe I underestimate kids now"

Don't underestimate kids. Kids aren't stupid, they just don't have a lot of knowledge.

It might sound weird, but when I was a kid I hated being treated like a kid. I didn't know the word then, but what I felt was that I was being oppressed. Even as a baby I remember feeling that way. A bit older when I was in kindergarten I remember having that feeling also.

Then when I had a son, I remember realizing that this baby was an intelligent person. He knew absolutely nothing about the world, but it was obvious that he was an intelligent being with thoughts. Literally everything was new. That's why babies love to look around. It's why they like bright things that catch their attention. It's all new to them and they are figuring it all out. They are intelligent, starting with a blank slate.

[VIVANT]

@ It might sound weird, but when I was a kid I hated being treated like a kid. I didn't know the word then, but what I felt was that I was being oppressed. Even as a baby I remember feeling that way. A bit older when I was in kindergarten I remember having that feeling also.

ME TOO!! Between 4 and 7 i used to yell at my ggm’s friends to stop treating me like a child bc I understood treating someone like a child was euphemism for being a condescending c*nt bc most adults are terrible with children and now I’m becoming the same 🤯

[WindAtMyBack]

"Between 4 and 7"

This just reminded me of something you said long ago... something about making "rules" for yourself at a young age. I just remember thinking "that's not normal". :P

I suspect the kid in that video has parents who treat him as the intelligent being that he is. His thoughts were so organized and he was so articulate.

[Lliam]

LOL I was the same way. I hated being treated like a child. It felt like being treated like a cute pet. It felt condescending and demeaning. I wanted to be treated like a little man.

I remember when I was really young maybe three, and got my first pair of roller skates. They were the kind that attached to your shoes. My parents took me out to the sidewalk. They wanted to steady me but I waved them off and said "I can do it. I can do it."
When they backed off, I promptly fell on my ass. My mom rushed in to help me but my dad said "He's alright", so they both stood back. I got to my feet and, this time, I skated. I felt proud of myself.

My mom was strict about nap time. I hated being sent to my room for a nap when I wasn't tired. She didn't care about how I felt about it.

I wanted to be treated with dignity and respect. l wanted people to talk to me like I was a young man with thoughts and feelings of my own.

[Guy13]

It is cute but I hear the modeling of either television, internet, and/or parental verbiage. I'm not getting married? why would you? All that was missing was SINCE he can get the scoot-scoot and she can have the penis without having to commit... why would anyone?

[VIVANT]

Yeah when he said why would I it started to feel scripted but then he went off on his his own & it seemed he was thinking on his own so he brought me beck. I LOVE the second “well” 😂

[Philyouup]

That was adorable, he’s a very articulate little guy. And yeah, he has his reasons already worked out. That is until puberty hits. lol. Thanks for the share Miss Viv

[VIVANT]

😂 glad you liked it 😊

[JDavid25]

Haha that was cute.. I guess it what impressed me was that he knew and explained the entire concept of marriage and even in his kid mind knew kissing ND spit would be involved.. LOL.. I guess he better enjoy that disgust while his smart kid mind still can.. 😂😂

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Kids are more intelligent then adults nowdays

[VIVANT]

😂 😊

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@VIVANT 🤣🤗

[Anonymous]

You can't argue with that, some of those kids are kissing with spit.

Also, re: Keana; throws.

[VIVANT]

I knew a guy fully grown like 50s he said basically the exact same thing to me about a woman he knew. He was suffering ptsd tho not from the kiss 😂

[VIVANT]

I loved his second “well” he suddenly sounded like a very mature self possessed 35 year old lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Haha. @VIVANT You should have him on your podcast! That would be a great interview.

[VIVANT]

😂😂😂 I think after that video he’ll be way too much of a celebrity to access 😅

[Jamie05rhs]

Aww haha. Well, you should try anyway! 😊

[Raaj4you]

That kid is a smart kid, he knows marriage is not good for him. Let's see what he does when? he grows up. Never underestimate the kids, they have more honest answers than adults. Babies / Kids are god's gift.

[Andres77]

Being genuine…

[VIVANT]

😊😊

[OlderAndWiser]

Cute kid who seems to be a bit precocious.