Why do the type of men who keep civilization running get picked last?

[Anonymous]

In favour of athletes, comedians, musicians and doctors. The usefulness of all of them being highly questionable.

Coders, for example, get cheated on more than any other profession. They actually make useful stuff, like AI, which is about to change the world.

[Anonymous]

Coders? My ex was (is) a coder and he’s the most evil narcissistic manipulative psycho I’ve ever know. I won’t even get into everything he’s done to me (and others). Poor poor coders huh. Fuck no. But it’s not about prefessions, it’s about the person. It makes sense that certain personality types are drawn more to certain professions, so for example - while most coders likely aren’t psychos like my ex I’m convinced shy, introverted and or passive guys are more likely to be in that field than in for example stand up comedy. And it’s a well known fact that men who lack confidence or are shy and passive will have a much more difficult time finding a partner because they are less likely to go out and meet lots of new peeople and women also just don’t take as many first steps, and when they do they’d probably be more likely to do so with guys who’re open and easy to talk to.

[Anonymous]

Coders? Are you seriously ranking them higher than doctors?

[Asker]

Yeah they actually make things. Doctors learn about drugs and which ones to give people.

[Asker]

And I would assume the biochemists who actually make the drugs the doctors use, aren't favoured on the dating scene either.