My mom boyfriend spanks me a lot is he into me?

[Anonymous]

[Xecon]

i know you do not want to hear this but that is a sign he has a bit of a pedophilic attraction to you. You are under 18 and it is illegal for him to make sexual advances on you in anyway. Honestly tell your mom about this. If he continues or gets more open about doing this stuff, legit report it. That can turn into some serious shit real fast

[Anonymous]

Just going to check here.
1. Does your mother know this?
2. Does he try to keep it a secret?
3. Does he do anything outside of spanking you?
Aaand finally.. is spanking a common thing where you live?

[Asker]

Nope
Yes he does.
No just spank me
And I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

Alright. How old are you? Regardless from him trying to keep it a secret we know his intentions aren't clandestine. You should tell someone about this. Your mother being a good first. After that your teacher/student council.

[Asker]

I am 14 Why

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. Talk to someone.

[Anonymous]

I think you should talk to your mom about it. I think you should tell her how you uncomfortable with her boyfriend spanking you. I personally think it wrong for him to spank you especially him not being your father or stepfather. I hope everything works out. God Bless!

[Asker]

I am not uncomfortable I just think it's weird

[Opinion Owner]

I agree it is. If he ever get inappropriate with you tell your mom or another adult.

[Asker]

Okay.

[ScaryCool]

You're kind of out of the age to be getting spanks. Have you expressed this to your mom? Also need to tell an adult at school if she does nothing about it or lashes out.

[Asker]

No he says not to tell anyonen

[ScaryCool]

Then obviously it's wrong intentions, meaning you definitely should.

If you're just trolling though, that's just sad.

[Asker]

I am not a troll

[natrickk]

You definitely need to tell another adult about this. No matter what he says, it is important that your mother knows this is happening. The way he is behaving is not healthy and he may hurt you. Talk to you mother as soon as possible.

[MadeInAmerica]

Well if your getting in to trouble that probably why. If you find it enjoyable you should seek help.

[Asker]

I don't get into troblue

[Nandor]

The loli police is here

[Anon-ymous1]

The fuck does this question even mean? What are you asking?

[Asker]

Is my mom boyfriend likes me

[Anon-ymous1]

What?

[Asker]

My mom's boyfriend likes me

[Anon-ymous1]

Ohhhh your mom's boyfriend. I thought you meant the mom of YOUR boyfriend. Uh, anyway, I dunno. Hard to say.

[Asker]

Okay

[TonyRyanAgain]

You should definitely talk to your mom about this...

[RedRobin]

This has to be a troll question

[cupidkisses]

That's not enough to say

[CoffeeWC]

You need to tell someone about this

[jjj101010]

Spanks u? Like on the ass?

[Asker]

Ya bare butt

[jjj101010]

What for?

[Asker]

Cause I talk back / misbehave

[Anonymous]

does your mum know he does that?

[Asker]

Nope. He does it when we are home alone

[Opinion Owner]

do you like it?

[Asker]

Yes Lol

[Opinion Owner]

do you think he realises that you like it?

[Asker]

I think he does.

[Opinion Owner]

i think it'd be difficult to hide lol, he probably does :)

do you want it to go further?

[Asker]

No his too big for my liking.

[Opinion Owner]

what if he takes you anyway?

[Asker]

Takes me how?

[Opinion Owner]

that.. is not a conversation for the general public

^ which should answer your question

[natrickk]

Hey B_H, why are you asking this 14 yr old grooming questions?

[Opinion Owner]

@natrickk fist of all this isn't a 14 year old girl but in fact the stepdad in question projecting his wishes, second, she" never stated "her" age, third, it's entirely possible to have such kinks at such a young age and i'd rather see them guided by someone who knows what they are talking about, fourth, none of my questions were "grooming", i think you're just seeing things you want to see.

i practise safe, sane and consensual bdsm and i have done so for years. please take your whiteknighting elsewhere.

[natrickk]

The OP said in other responses they there were 14. I saw no info indicating it was the stepdad.
As an adult, you don't get to "guide" a 14 yr old into BDSM. That's sick, depraved, and illegal.
Having spent a little over a year tracking sexual predators online as part if my career, I can tell you with confidence that, yes, some of the language you used is grooming language.
Call me what you want, but if OP is the age which they said they were, than you're helping to groom a 14 yr old and normalizing sexually abusive behavior. I'm not just going to kick back and watch that happen.

Don't get me wrong. I have absolutely nothing against BDSM or any safe, consensual fetish act between adults.
I do have a problem with the sketchy shit you were saying.

[Opinion Owner]

@natrickk there was indeed a comment posted stating she was 14. *after* any of my comments were posted. i do apologise for not being psychic.

" some of the language you used is grooming language" oh dear I've triggered a label!

[natrickk]

He OPs info clearly says under 18. How much more info so you need?

[Opinion Owner]

the age of consent is 16 in most countries in the world including yours

[natrickk]

Nope. The age of consent in my country is 18. In Ireland it's 17.
Even if it was 16, the smart thing to do is confirm someone age before going any further. "Under 18" could be 12, or 13, or like now, 14.

[Asker]

Mexico 14

[Opinion Owner]

@natrickk your profile says US, i assumed you were from the US for that reason. hence i said 16 in your country. I don't know why you list ireland?

[natrickk]

Close, the federal age of consent in the U. S. is 18. Why take your question anonymous all of a sudden? Easier to be Brutally Honest if no one knows who you are? :P

[Opinion Owner]

@natrickk because you are playing a sick game by making it look like i have ill intentions. i do not but from an outsider perspective it will not be immediately obvious

[natrickk]

It's what you said that makes it sound like you have ill intentions man.
This isn't a game. You said some creepy shit to a very young girl, and then tried to defend it. If you do that there are people who are going to take it seriously. Maybe be careful not to say creepy shit to young girls in the future.

[Opinion Owner]

@natrickk maybe mind your own business and don't project your sick fetishes on others

[natrickk]

Dude, you were asking an obviously young girl who is talking about being sexually groomed "do you like it?" And "what if he takes you anyway?". You know thats sketchy as fuck. Thats why you went Anonymous when I called you out. Making feeble claims that I'm "projecting" is not going to make what you said look any less creepy.

[TinaSP]

Whaaaaat?

[Casus_Angelus]

Yeah he is into you

[Asker]

Yay i knew it

[Casus_Angelus]

Yay let's cheers and celebrate it because chances are your mother's boyfriend is pedophile

[Asker]

Well he aintb

[Casus_Angelus]

Ok he is not then, yay

[Asker]

Ya he just into me

[Casus_Angelus]

Yay come to papa

[Asker]

You need a hug?

[Casus_Angelus]

No, I'm not a hugger

[Asker]

Then what u need daddy?

[Casus_Angelus]

You need to tell your mom if something inappropriate happened between you and your mom's boyfriend

[Asker]

Nothing happen

[Casus_Angelus]

Ok I believe you