Girls, how can I ask my female friends for pictures of their feet (please read description)?

[Slick_rick2000]

So I graduated a few years ago and have a few girls who are closer to me ( who I have known for almost ten years), and others who I have had a class or two with who I still speak to at times. I think that they are amazing women, and I appreciate their intelligence.. their passion... their personalities... I think that they are a pleasure to hear from and talk to. The thing is... I really wanna see the soles of their feet. I really wanna ask, but I am unsure of how to go about. I said "maybe not the best idea" initially and considered other means of meeting this desire, but weeks and months later I still want to ask. I don't see too much issue with it is they are cool, but wanted to ask here.

What are my intentions? Well, there IS (I repeat, IS) a sexy element to it, but it is largely an appreciation I have for women's feet (assuming they are clean and all)... the soft soles and toes... the polish... the petite, feminine nature of a women's feet... I just appreciate them and find them pretty... I love seeing girls cross over their girly, size 6/7/8/9 soles out of a car window or on a table. No I don't have a girlfriend, and I have looked and continue to, but that is neither here nor there. How can I ask my woman friends (most of whom I went to school with) for pics of their feet? Answers are appreciated. Thank you kindly, girls!

[SueShe]

You appreciate their intelligence and personalities and therefore, you will not ask them for anything that will jeopardize your friendship.

Since they are intelligent, they will quickly notice that you are only after a sexual kink/fantasy/fetish and that should be sufficient to you for not wanting to ask them.

It is not very difficult to understand that you are going to pass for a person with a very specific deviant kink and with those pictures on hand, one could imagine what will happen to those pictures.

Honestly, if you value their friendship, then don't ask for something like that because you risk to destroy this friendship.

[Slick_rick2000]

While it is commonly understood that having a thing for women's feet is sexual, the frame of reference that I am thinking through is more from an appreciative point of view... thinking they are pretty, cute, etc. I don't see the big deal. I may like them sexually a bit, but I don't have to go into that as it isn't my main intention.

[SueShe]

As you wish.

If I have a friend that asks me something like that, then the friendship is over and out because I am fully aware of the perversion and what it entails. I want quality friends and not some that will do a number of things with those pictures.

Just think that they might consider you a pervert. That is all I intended to say.

[Slick_rick2000]

Again, mainly focused on appreciation. That is what I would tell them also because it is the truth. And no, I will not ask ALL of them... Just a few... the ones I get the "this could be okay" vibe from. While it is usually a "no," I have had like 3 girls say yes.

[Slick_rick2000]

YOU ACTED LIKE IT'S FUCKING EVIL! WHAT'S SO BAD ABOUT A FEW GODDAMN PICS? YES I LOVE THEM AS PEOPLE... THOUGH I AIN'T FUCKING ASKING FOR MUCH!

[hypotheticallyurs]

If they’re your friends, you don’t want to intermingle your sexual stuff with them. It implies to them that’s you see them in more of an objectifying sexualizing way. Unless that’s your intention, then I mean go for it. Just don’t expect those relationships to last

[Slick_rick2000]

It is more of an appreciation thing. There is a sexual element, but it is more appreciation based. I honestly don't see why a guy friend can't ask a girl for feet pics. People resist too much. They do. It is okay to introduce kinks into a friendship carefully... Only flat out sex is and should be exclusive to partners. I don't count kinks. This new society has too many rules now.

[hypotheticallyurs]

homie why r u asking for advice if you’re just not gonna take it? Best wishes tho, cuz it seems like you’re gonna do it

[Slick_rick2000]

Again, mainly focused on appreciation. That is what I would tell them also because it is the truth. And no, I will not ask ALL of them... Just a few... the ones I get the "this could be okay" vibe from. While it is usually a "no," I have had like 3 girls say yes.

Reply

[Anonymous]

Ugh, another weirdo.

[Slick_rick2000]

Nothing wrong with that... As long as we are consenting adults and I respect them if they say "no."

[Slick_rick2000]

YOU ACTED LIKE IT'S FUCKING EVIL! WHAT'S SO BAD ABOUT A FEW GODDAMN PICS? YES I LOVE THEM AS PEOPLE... THOUGH I AIN'T FUCKING ASKING FOR MUCH!

[Sketti2021]

Weird

[Slick_rick2000]

And? Is that so wrong? This new society has become very closed off.