Is it okay if I have a sugar baby?

[DavidSmith007]

Cause I Lost my wife and kid in an accident years back now am lonely and don't know what to do😭😭💔😔

[janatellya]

Just make sure u are selecting a baby who is about you as well as herself. You know someone who cares about you and enjoys spending time with you. Not just someone who wants your money

[Nonameee9]

Definitely 😉, if that comforts you in this time , go for it ! What state are you in I may be interested 👀😂

[SueShe]

I am sorry for your loss but a sugar baby is not the answer to your problem.

If your age is correct, you are quickly moving towards being a lonely person in your old age and while a person that is solely after your money for a few minutes of physical pleasure, she will never be able to give you what you will be needing most when you grow much older and that would be companionship.

I understand that you may have some physical needs but those will be getting less frequent with age. Right now, you still are not too old to find another person that can share not only your needs for intimacy but also much more that that.

You could find the person that can also share the other nice moments of life and my belief is that you should concentrate on those other nicer moments that take up to 99% of your awake time rather than this one person that will steal the remaining 1% by giving you temporary relief only.

Good luck.

[PrettyPriya]

I’m afraid I don’t know what a “sugar baby” is. That isn’t translating right for me.

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya I have learned from past questions here that a sugar baby is a young girl that seeks intimate contacts with a richer elderly man against money. It is not petty cash but huge amounts that those sugar babies are "stealing" from those men for a few minutes of intimacy.

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Also, there is not just cash involved but other gifts such as cars and jewels, clothing and accessories. Not the type of accessories you will find in the Dollar store of course.

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe Yikes. What’s wrong with those girls? That isn’t something that is very common here on this side of the continent.

Sure, it happens but not a common term really. Thanks for the explanation. I hope you enjoyed your week-end. 🙂

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya It is really something that is more common in the so-called civilized part of the world, mainly in the US.

[SueShe]

You should not have placed your contact information because now, your question is considered as spamming and trolling and I will have to inform GaG about it. As you know, it is clearly against the rules and regulations of this site.

[sage2021]

David,
I am truly sorry for the tragedy in your life. I hope you are doing ok.
Your age isn't that old. But I believe if you weren't sporting your gray hair, you would look much more desirable for a relationship in your future.
I also believe a sugar baby is NOT the answer and it would only make you feel worse if you did that. Plus it would take a lot of money. You do want some Money left in your retirement to live on don't you?
The best of luck to you🌹

[Smoke-n-Growls]

As long as you and your sugar baby have an understanding of what you each want out of the arrangement, and you both respect each other's boundaries, of course it's okay.

(And obviously they need to be of legal age)

You're valid for wanting to find companionship. There's nothing wrong with that at all. Nothing wrong with being a sugar daddy, either.

I hope you find what you're looking for.

[upzdayz]

I'm sorry to hear that you've lost your loved ones. But giving money for attention and love is the last thing you should do you should find someone who cares about you and loves you for who you are they could be friends or lovers. but the hardest fact you'll have to face is what happened. I've lost people who meant a lot to me and at one point you'll have to face it head-on. yes, it happened and yes it hurts but you choose who you want to be and what you want to do. don't go looking for love where you'll find greed. life goes on you'll find someone, and you will get past it no matter how hard the struggle is now. and if you ever need someone to talk to I'm a few clicks away, you're not alone. Please remember that.

[sheikalana]

David, I feel very sorry for your loss. It's okay if that's what you want to do but a suga baby won't feel the void for too long it will only be temporary and I believe it will never be genuine since they're doing it mostly for the money. Would you consider give another opportunity to love and find a serious relationship?

[Rebecka33]

No when you lose everything you have its very difficult and I know you want to fill that void. No one wil be able to replace them as a person. Also you shouldn't need to hand out monet to have that bond with someone who would appreciate it in return. I know what it's like to not have a father figure I would never expect a guy to pay my way mostly though.

[Rebecka33]

I would put it in God's hands and also find a person who appreciates you minus the money but as a person. 100 dollars here and there is one thing anything more is not what is love and need if they really cared about that.

[Rebecka33]

Your also younger than me 44? Wow you look so mature thought you were 60

[upzdayz]

AMEN!

[Blackcosmo]

I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope you're feeling a little better now.
I don't think having a sugar baby is the answer. Maybe you could settle down again through marriage or maybe get a girlfriend.

[Blackcosmo]

By the way you shouldn't give your personal information out. A private chat would have been better.

[nice-girl]

Don’t waste your time till your older with a sugar baby. Use your time to date and find a real life partner and have a baby.
You were missfortunate with what happened to you but you can rebuild your life.

[menina]

I'm sorry for your loss. It's not easy and it must be so painful.
I don't think you should have a sugar baby. I think you could have a girlfriend or you could get married again. Having a sugar baby sounds wrong to me.

[NobodyXox]

Yeah of course. But I wouldn't do it because of being lonely. You don't want someone who's just in it for your money, I don't think that's going to fill the void.

[Sour-rose]

Sure... if you're actually your race and not some pakastani in pakistan claiming they're in california and wanting to have a "sugar baby" because you got a lotta "money... but it's all bullshi :)

[bubblegunnn]

Sorry for ur loss.. if u just want sexually satisfied without feeling, yes sugar baby. But they only need ur money. So no..
Why dont just find new wife so u can get love and sexually satisfied

[annabananna]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Other than loneliness what are your reasons for wanting a sugar baby over a female friend or girlfriend that isn’t a sugar baby?

[SaartjieJane]

Don’t need anyone else to say if it’s okay or not. If you want to then do it.

[Ms_Facesitter]

If you're okay with it... but in my eyes you're settling for less, way less, someone who only likes you for the money.

[rachel776]

i think it's a great idea for guys vs. not having sex

[Subarugirl]

That's so sad... I get random messages from men on Instagram who have similar stories looking for sugar babies fairly often...

[upzdayz]

damn, Snapchat flashbacks be like.

[inquisitivequeen]

If that’s what you like, that’s what you like. Go for it.

[lluciddreaming]

David life can be fucking shit. and if there dead theeyyyyy wooonnnntttt fightttt ittttttttt

[jengeorge26]

Yea, go to an adoption center and raise a child

[ahriz]

Nothing wrong with that. 2 consenting adults.

[TacosRAwesome]

Your money, your choice. I don't judge.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with it.

[Selena1987]

Not at all