Sister is mad because I told her about her daughter?

[Anonymous]

Why would my sister be mad at me for informing her of her daughter vaping and smoking weed?

[EmbraceThePain]

I don’t really know, but maybe she thinks it’s not your business and doesn’t want you to bring up the fact that her daughter vapes and smokes weed because it may make her feel like she’s not doing a sufficient enough job as a mother? I don’t know her or you so I can’t say much more.

[Asker]

My niece is 12, this will get worse if I don’t say something. She’s also cutting herself

[Drumlin2001]

Sounds like she's defelcting her emotions at you rather than her daughter or herself.

[AndrésC64]

He's probably just mad and disappointed with her daughter but is taking it out on you.