Im still angry of my bullies how can I get revenge to them?

[Anonymous]

What they did to me kept playing in my mind and it makes me angry. I still remember what they said and how they treated like s----

[normalice]

Bullies are all but defined as people who hurt others but see themselves as the victim. People who hurt others but regret it are not necessarily bullies - likely just survivalists doing what they think they need to do.

If they truly are a bully and imagine themselves a victim, it's hard to know what good revenge would be. Anything you do to hurt them would just be taken as validation of their victimhood. Ostracizing them is also hard, as they have told themselves the story of how they are the victim so many times you can expect they will be talented at telling others the story. But even if they are successfully rejected they will turn to anyone they can and try to squeeze some loyalty out of them. Toppling a narcissist can be a very dangerous game unless people are united against them.

So, that's probably the best revenge. Become friends with the people your bully is acquainted with. If it turns out they are also wretched people, just walk away - they deserve each other. But if not it won't take too long for them to realize you are the reasonable one. And suddenly you will sit with the people your bully looks to for validation and can tell them no.

[Guy13]

It is too late now. How are you going to find them?

[Asker]

They still living in my town

[Guy13]

Oh. Be careful as people are crazy around the holidays. Go to the gym or run a mini marathon instead

[laraWM]

You shouldn't get revenge. It is really difficult but you should live with it and go ahead

This is part of you life and cannot be deleted but if you are looking for revenge it'll keep you in the past

[es20490446e]

That affects you only because you assume there's some truth on it.

But there isn't, what bullies say is just nonsense.

[jimmy2]

Don't go postal