Girls, would you feel uncomfortable if a guy friend tells you that you look sexy when you put on a nice dress for a party?

[Anonymous]

Yes that would make me feel uncomfortable

No it’s a nice compliment

[susie22]

Not at all, I get it all the time and I always take it as a compliment. I'm realistic, whenever I wear something that I feel looks sexy, I'm sure guys feel the same way and that's a good thing.

[TrueConfection]

When I was in my 20s, I'd have said it was a disrespectful comment. At my age, I'll happily soak up that compliment!

[mandyfire98]

Not at all. I've had guy friends tell me I looked hot or sexy before.

[Asker]

And you didn’t fancy him or find him attractive?

[mandyfire98]

Some of my guy friends are attractive for sure. I don't like them in a romantic way though.

[Asker]

Would you find it uncomfortable if an ugly guy friend said you’re sexy?

[mandyfire98]

Well context for any guy calling me sexy matters. Like if it's a friend and they say "wow nice outfit, lookin sexy today"

What's not acceptable is "oh you're sexy, you are turning me on. I like staring at you"

There's a way to say it and it be creepy AF and a way to say it and it be acceptable.