Bullying what can I do?

[Anonymous]

hello, my mom has been bullying me for years as long as I can remember when I was a 12-14 year old kid she used to say horse mouth, look at the horse it looks just like you, your make-up is like a clown (just lip balm mascara), wide forehead, you're like a baton, thin-legged alien girl, When you wanted to look like russians you looked like a kurdish with your eyebrows, she used to say... My mother beat me with a rolling pin and I was abused when I was little when I told my mother that she beat me with rolling pins. She said the one man abused to you you can remember i wish he would fuck you. I never wore my mask during covid times, when my friends started to open, they opened mine too and everyone started complimenting me my confident was so good thats when i realized that not all people are bad, today i was just hungry and i put food from the fridge, my mom said to me, do you have an eating disorder, what are you eating? i couldnt swallow at that time. im 172cm 48kg. as you can see, all my childhood and adolescence were spent with self-confidence issues because of my mother what can i do? i can't stand it anymore.

[MementoMori777]

Clap back, she hits you with an insult, you hit her back harder with a better one, I recommend keep the insults physical so it's the same energy, normally the way to stop bullies is to beat them at their own game, she calls you a horse you call her a gorilla, tell her that her nostrils are so far apart, you can land a jumbo jet between them, bullies bully cause you let them, they find weak targets and if your friends tell you the opposite then it's possible your mother is jealous of your appearance, which is why most bullies bully in the first place.

[BoobSlayer]

When my sister tried to molest me, I smacked her chesticles really hard. It made her think twice about feeding me laxatives while she chewed on my corn dog. Her bazookas would glow like fiery biscuits and she couldn't even put a bra on after that.

[Mynameisbobby]

Sorry you went through that. I understand what you are going through beleive me. I to was bullied mostly by my older sister she beat up really bad and my mother let her do it. I still have nightmares and bad anxiety from it. Try counseling, it's helping me. If you ever need to talk you can message me.

[Avicenna]

Where are your other family members when she does this stuff? Plus, you’re an adult- don’t stick around for this abuse.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I'm sorry but you have to leave that toxic environment. Try to move as far from your mother as possible and make good friends.

[slatyb]

Move out, then limit contact with her.

[swettannie]

Get the fuck out ASAP

[MementoMori777]

Or you can do this, fight or flight shit