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BI don't have an older sister, but I always wanted to have a sister, I would like to hug her, I would like her to hug me, I would like her to love me, I would like her to caress my head, I would like to lie on her knee, I would like her to embrace me Why do you think I feel like this, I don't have a sister, but I wish I had a spiritual sister with whom I can do these things.
I always want to have a sister, but I don't have a sister, why do you think I want a sister? ?
Anonymous
(25-29) 
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There are a few reasons why you may want to have a sister:
1. The desire for companionship. A sister can be a lifelong friend and companion who knows and understands you from a young age. You likely crave that unconditional bond and mutual support.
2. The need for emotional intimacy. Sisters often share a closeness and intimacy that allows for vulnerability, honesty and comfort. You may yearn for someone you can confide in and who will listen without judgment.
3. The wish for nurturing and affection. The physical and emotional care that sisters often give each other (hugging, caressing, embracing) fulfills an innate human need for touch, affection and nurturing. You clearly desire that kind of comfort and love.
4. Filling an "emotionally feminine" role. If you lacked a nurturing mother figure or other close female relatives while growing up, you may seek a "sister" to fill that emotionally feminine role of comfort, vulnerability, affection and intimacy that a mother or sister can provide.
5. A built-in companion and friend. Siblings, especially sisters, often form the longest and most enduring relationships of our lives. You likely crave that built-in companionship and lifelong friend.
While you don't have a biological sister, you can find "chosen family" to fill some of these roles. Close female friends, mentors, spiritual guides and community can provide aspects of the companionship, nurturing and affection you desire. Focus on building deep, honest connections with women in your life to fulfill your "sisterly" needs in a non-romantic way.
There are many reasons why you might want a sister. Maybe you feel like you're missing out on something important, or that you don't have anyone to share your experiences with. It's also possible that you're simply drawn to the idea of having a close bond with another person. Whatever the reason, it's important to remember that there are many ways to find sisterhood, even if you don't have a biological sister. You can find sisters in your friends, your community, or even online. The important thing is to find people who you can connect with and who make you feel supported and loved.
Hope this perspective provides some insight and clarity! Let me know if you have any other questions.
The third one mostly tells about me, so I mean, if I only had an older sister, I wouldn't even look for another friend, we would spend time together, we would always have fun, I would be happy, frankly.
And some girls said it's scary, what's scary about it Lol I guess those who say this don't care about family love in the country they live in. Individuals lol
There are a few possible explanations for why some girls might find your desire for a sister "scary":
1. Your intensity - Some may find the strength of your longing for familial affection to be unusually intense. While natural, a very strong desire for something that you cannot have can raise concerns for others.
2. Dependence - Some may worry that your desire for a sister stems from an unhealthy dependence on others for comfort, nurturing and affection. They may see it as a sign that you lack self-sufficiency.
3. Codependency - There is a concern that if you did have a sister, your desire for her time, attention and affection would become overbearing or codependent. You described wanting to spend all your time together and feel happy only with her - this could be seen as unrealistic or unhealthy.
4. Possessiveness - Your phrasing of "wouldn't even look for another friend" if you had a sister could come across as possessive and socially isolated. Others may worry this indicates an unwillingness to form healthy relationships beyond a single familial bond.
5. Clinging - Descriptions like wanting your sister to "always have fun" with you and wanting to constantly "lie on her knee" could come across as overly clingy or dependent, which makes some people uncomfortable.
Overall, while your desire for sisterly nurturing is understandable, some of your descriptions could come across as overly intense, dependent or possessive in a way that raises concern. Some rephrasing and acknowledging your capacity for independence may help reassure others.
The key is to find healthy ways to fulfill your desire for platonic intimacy and nurturing through close friendships. Focus on balance, reciprocity and respecting your friends' boundaries - not idealizing any one relationship as all-consuming.
what will i do i wish i was my sister :/
*older sister
Um. That's really not how siblings are...
Actually you are not...
You..
This is about the country you live in, I think this is the country I live in, I don't know your country, ma'am
I'm really not sure what you're saying.
Which country do you live in
I don't see how that's relevant. Siblings aren't inherently best friends or super cuddle-y or whatever. Personal compatibility matters as much in familial relationships as any other.
Madam, about the countries where people live, could you please tell me your country, I was wondering
It depends on the countries people live in.
It does not depend on the country you live in so your question is irrelevant. Being born to the same parents doesn't mean you'll be besties. That's not how it works and I don't know what you think geography affects this.
🤦🤦 when I told this situation to a female citizen of my own country she said how sweet she was
Please tell me your country
Geography is destiny very relevant
It's a situation related to geography. People in your country may find this strange, I think the families in your country do not have family relations, they are individuals, this is not the case in my country.
When I told this situation to a female citizen of my country, she said how sweet it was. and their sisters love their brothers too
Yeah, that is not creepy at all. 🤔
What's scary?
It's about the country you live in.
This is how you feel 😉
Because of your country...
When I told this situation to a female citizen of my country, she said how sweet it was.
It's a situation related to geography. People in your country may find this strange, I think the families in your country do not have family relations, they are individuals, this is not the case in my country.
When I told this situation to a female citizen of my country, she said how sweet it was. and their sisters love their brothers too