If your significant other had a baby outside of the relationship would you stay or would you leave?

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jojoiwiwbwjo · Accepted Answer

That happened in the past. I had a friend who had a child from previous relationships, for me it was about sex and I then found out it wasn't for her and we peacefully went our separate ways but the sex was particularly interesting, i could not stop the thought that her kid came of of there from poping up in my head.

bowenw · Accepted Answer

If were were in a committed long-term monogamous relationship I believe I would most likely leave if the baby was conceived while we were together so she could live and raise the child with it's father.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

When you say outside of the relationship do you mean he was in a relationship and cheated when she fell pregnant or do you mean he had the baby prior to being in a relationship?

If they cheated I'd be out the door

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

If he was “stepping out” outside the relationship, I’d leave whether a baby resulted or not… I wouldn’t stay with a cheater, period…

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I'm going to leave the relationship if the one I was in a relationship with cheated on me. The door would be slammed extra hard if he got a kid with the other at the same time.

sage2021 · Answer

If he goes and makes a family of his own with them, then you need to back out and let them have their own little family. Besides it's his duty to both of them.

sheikalana · Answer

I would leave. I cannot stay with a man who's having a baby from another woman while in a relationship with me.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Byeeeeeeeeeee Besides cheating I also have a vasectomy and don't even want my own kids.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Leave. Not only he cheated but he couldn't even use a condom.

Andres77 · Answer

Depends on when she had the baby and why she left the child

Billlewis · Answer

Of course I would. That's actually quite appealing to me.

CubaPirate · Answer

I'd take the high road if it was a result of her cheating on me

AmeerX · Answer

I don't mind if she has children if I love her. They shouldn't be from cheating though. I would keep her children but never a cheater.

aadrianaa777 · Answer

i he cheated and got her prego byeee but it the baby happened before us then okay its fine

Anonymous · Answer

Leave, assuming it was cheating and not an instance of surrogacy or rape.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on various factors.

exitseven · Answer

ggoodby and good luck.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Do I look stupid?

Cubus · Answer

Depends on the circumstances

Apple1996 · Answer

Leave

Brittanyroseee · Answer

Id say bye bye lol

HelpfulWoman · Answer

leave. easily.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Leave

LiamJHayden · Answer

I'd be gone.

If your significant other had a baby outside of the relationship would you stay or would you leave?

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