If your significant other had a baby outside of the relationship would you stay or would you leave?

[Lucy68]

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

That happened in the past. I had a friend who had a child from previous relationships, for me it was about sex and I then found out it wasn't for her and we peacefully went our separate ways but the sex was particularly interesting, i could not stop the thought that her kid came of of there from poping up in my head.

[bowenw]

If were were in a committed long-term monogamous relationship I believe I would most likely leave if the baby was conceived while we were together so she could live and raise the child with it's father.

[bowenw]

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[Anonymous]

When you say outside of the relationship do you mean he was in a relationship and cheated when she fell pregnant or do you mean he had the baby prior to being in a relationship?

If they cheated I'd be out the door

[Lucy68]

If you two were in a relationship at the moment and they went out and cheated

[Opinion Owner]

I'd leave their ass. Why stay with a cheater? If they can cheat even once, they will likely cheat again.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

If he was “stepping out” outside the relationship, I’d leave whether a baby resulted or not… I wouldn’t stay with a cheater, period…

[Little_Bumblebee]

I'm going to leave the relationship if the one I was in a relationship with cheated on me.
The door would be slammed extra hard if he got a kid with the other at the same time.

[sage2021]

If he goes and makes a family of his own with them, then you need to back out and let them have their own little family. Besides it's his duty to both of them.

[sheikalana]

I would leave. I cannot stay with a man who's having a baby from another woman while in a relationship with me.

[MikeTheBartender]

Byeeeeeeeeeee

Besides cheating I also have a vasectomy and don't even want my own kids.

[TacosRAwesome]

Leave. Not only he cheated but he couldn't even use a condom.

[Andres77]

Depends on when she had the baby and why she left the child

[Billlewis]

Of course I would. That's actually quite appealing to me.

[CubaPirate]

I'd take the high road if it was a result of her cheating on me

[AmeerX]

I don't mind if she has children if I love her. They shouldn't be from cheating though. I would keep her children but never a cheater.

[aadrianaa777]

i he cheated and got her prego byeee but it the baby happened before us then okay its fine

[Anonymous]

Leave, assuming it was cheating and not an instance of surrogacy or rape.

[Anonymous]

Depends on various factors.

[Lucy68]

Like what mind me asking

[Opinion Owner]

If she was raped, and I know I'll get shit for this but, also would be important that she didn't get SA'd from a situation where her actions leading up to said SA was something like an attempt to cheat in any form of the word.

[exitseven]

ggoodby and good luck.

[Lucy68]

I don't know why but that reminds me of a sitcom I'm trying to remember

[Jamie05rhs]

Do I look stupid?

[Lucy68]

You win this one, this comment right here made me howl🤣😂 thank you

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. Thank you, @Lucy68.

[Cubus]

Depends on the circumstances

[Lucy68]

They went out and cheated on you and pregnant with someone else's kid

[Cubus]

Then it seems on.

[Lucy68]

What do you mean

[Cubus]

No staying

[Apple1996]

Leave

[Brittanyroseee]

Id say bye bye lol

[HelpfulWoman]

leave. easily.

[Nikki1989]

Leave

[LiamJHayden]

I'd be gone.

[jahaims]

What?

[LavLavLuv]

Leave

[Kelly6]

stay

[eagle1951]

leave