Why does it trigger some people so much?

[Kykiono1]

I find some people are really triggered and angry when people spoil and baby their sons when they are young and teenagers. I think it's weird and shows they have some underlying issues.

[Drew-1990]

They have no reason to be triggered by it. But I will say I get why it bugs them a little. when you spoil any kid they get accustomed to it and then they expect to be spoiled in their adult life. I've worked with kids like that and they can't understand When we make them work hard and don't do it for them. It only triggers me though when I have to deal with the consequences of it.

[BadApple69]

I am not triggered by how others raise their kids. I do think it’s wrong babying any kid girl or boy… life will baby them at all. Our jobs as parents it to prepare them for life.

[Kykiono1]

Why do you baby yours kids then

[IslaTheWitch]

wife of one of my friends is triggered by this. She had an opportunity to be in a relationship with such a "man". She takes real care of raising her two boys properly so they can be real partners in the future.

[Kykiono1]

She has underlying issues

[IslaTheWitch]

she has her own experiences... we all have different experiences, which make us careful in specific situations. It's called learning and not making the same mistakes again.

[Kykiono1]

Her issue is different because she has been traumatised and is projecting her hate towards other mom's. It's sexist at best and child neglect at worst

[IslaTheWitch]

she doesn't show hate. She has her emotions and is entitled to have them. And w
hat is sexist? Having emotions? Or consciously raising kids?

[Kykiono1]

Because I am sure she supports overprotective dad's who think their daughters are saints

[IslaTheWitch]

she doesn't support anyone. She keeps her stuff for herself and takes care of her family. Don't you think you project too much on other people?

[Kykiono1]

No because that's not how I think so that is not a projection lol

[Kykiono1]

Funny you haven't answered the question for yourself

[PBandJ_Nerd]

As long as it's not over the top, there's nothing wrong with it.

[sheikalana]

A lot of people claim to want their sons to be good and masculine men but then at home they're raising a mommy's boy who doesn't know how to do anything and relies on their mom's for everything.

[Kykiono1]

That's not true in many cases.
I guess it's the same with treating girls like princesses

[Kykiono1]

You should be more understanding

[supercutebutt]

It's nothing a trip to the gloryhole can't fix.

[laly520]

it does when they always baby their teen sons

[Kykiono1]

How is it any of their business?
Men do it with their girls too

[laly520]

its what people do I guess
judging n being nosy

[Kykiono1]

Exactly and sexist

[jahaims]

Because raising pussies damages society

[Kykiono1]

You seem butthurt

[jahaims]

Nah, you're projecting

[Kykiono1]

You are the one using insults lol talk about projecting