Would you meet up with your biological child you put through adoption?

[Diamondust]

It was never my choice to conceive. It was forced upon me. The child is not at fault.

[Iron_Man]

I would never adopt my child out, but if something ever happened, of course I would meet him, but I would never adopt him out

[Diamondust]

I have no choice. I put her up for adoption to forget my past.

[Iron_Man]

But that’s your child. That’s a beautiful thing you shouldn’t have done that the future is the future.

[Diamondust]

She was forced into me at that time. I wanted to forget what happened to me.

[Iron_Man]

Oh man

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes but only once they are an adult and want to meet me

[Diamondust]

She is 13 now turning 14.

[BarryLiverstone]

If it was me, I would wait unless her new parents invited me in to meet her. Let them finish raising her as an adult.

Did she reach out to you?

[Diamondust]

The agency reached out to me.

[BarryLiverstone]

Gotcha. So 3rd party. But did they say who is taking care of her rn and if they want you in her life?

[Diamondust]

Yes.

[laly520]

yes I would n I would try to fix whats left to be fixed without pushing it

[Agape93]

Nope. If I drop you from my life, I'll never be in it again

[Anonymous]

Yes. In fact I was the child. It's important for some to reconcile fantasy and reality and understand that they are a real person, whatever their flaws or situation at the time.