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Virgo female dealin with Virgo male?

(Yes I believe in astrology)


Laziness / Avoidance of Responsibility
• He expects others to remind him or do things for him (laundry, meals, hygiene).
• He avoids taking initiative for basic adult responsibilities.
• Energy-wise: he’s stuck in comfort and habit, relying on others to “carry” him, which you’ve already noticed.

Root cause: likely tied to his upbringing—mom guided him a lot, father absent, no strong boundary-setting, reinforced by family enabling him.

2. Stubbornness & Resistance to Change
• He knows some things aren’t ideal (hygiene, habits, laziness), but resists putting in the effort to improve.
• Prefers staying in his loop rather than confronting uncomfortable change.
• Energy-wise: he’s aware of the problem but chooses comfort over growth, which is why he keeps repeating the same patterns.


3. Manipulation & Self-Preservation




4. Picky / Habitual Behavior
• Extremely picky with food, routines, and habits; avoids trying new things.
• Energy-wise: he’s habit-bound and resistant, almost childlike in his decision-making.
• He can enjoy things you offer (like when you cook), but outside his “comfort zone,” he avoids effort.



5. Emotional Ambiguity / Hesitation
• He wants you, but hesitates to step up, act decisively, or take control.
• Can give mixed signals—pulling back and leaning in at the same time.
• Energy-wise: he’s caught between desire and fear of responsibility, which makes him inconsistent.



6. Influence of Family & Past
• Mother kept him on track; after her passing, he lost external guidance.
• Brother wants him dependent or struggling; this energy keeps him stagnant.
• Father absent, so male role-model guidance missing.



7. Compatibility Issues
• His Virgo energy combined with your Virgo energy amplifies friction:
• I’m action-oriented, decisive, and aware.
• He is slower, hesitant, and comfort-seeking.
• Outcome: he resists growth, i resist stagnation—creates a repeating “on/off” pattern.
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6 mo
He’s not a bad person but his behaviors and ways are a bit DRAING has anybody dealt with a shi*ty virgo orrrr it’s just me and what y'all think about male virgos
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6 mo
Also heard they not really good partners his communication can be off at times to LIKEE he’s 37 years old and this is what I deal with
Virgo female dealin with Virgo male?
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