My brother is trying to set me up with his friend

[Anonymous]

And its not the "oh you 2 would be great together" kind of set up. I overheard him talking to my other borther about setting me up with his friend so that "I would be with someone they know and can control" really?

I honestly start to regret going to the same college as they did. Why is he doing this? I don't want him to have control about every part of my life. Is this always gonna be like this? all my life or at least during the time we stay here together? It sucks.

All three of us live together too, Because it's cheaper than paying college housing for each of us but this makes it so much worse

[softballgirl-1508]

brothers will be brothers. Trust me, I know. You've just gotta keep on keepin on, and tell him that you overheard him, and tell him you aren't gonna date anyone he's associated with because your'e gonna do your own damn thing and he can't control you. so f*** off :)

[Anonymous]

... just say no?

What's your background that they feel the need to control you? Are you/they religious at all?

[Asker]

no, not at all. I never did anything irresponsible either. I've never been drunk, never did drugs, I never even had sex yet. I don't know why they are acting like this

[Opinion Owner]

Tell them to back off and butt out of your life.