Questions: Family & Friends

Many girls tell me that they don't need to love their male offspring because this tboa not the 90s anymore

My stepmom and my dad were arguing over some personal issues and I was feeling stressed out. Something about junk food, cigarettes, her family, she yelled very badly at my dad, she said that he and I need to f*** off and leave, etc etc etc. My dad said that I need to tell her I was sorry for what I said, even though I already apologized. My dad accused me of being "smart" with her even though I was literally stating a fact and wasn't saying it in a negative tone. I hate being around people who always think words matter more than tone, action, context, etc. I get influened very easily by these people.

I am on vacation with them but I will be leaving tomorrow to return to my mom's house. My mom found out that I called 911 becaue I am currently on my stepdad's phone bill line and he found out about it and talked to my mom about it. She and my dad told me not to call 911 anymore; luckily the police didn't come.

I feel not just very bad for my dad but very regretful of planning this vacation s**t in the first place. I've gained hella weight, my dad keeps telling me I'm not fat EVEN THOUGH I ACTUALLY AM, no girl f***ing wants to date me even though my dad keeps calling me handsome and telling me not to believe what people on Photofeeler say about me. Every non-bot girl on Tinder and Bumble ignores me like I am a subhuman buttugly doofus.

I am not a Joe Rogan or a Brad Pitt... I am just an average guy with a mathematically intelligent mindset. I have autism, my stepmom literally tried to bring me into her aggressive conversations with my dad, she yelled at my mom over the goddamn phone, and I am so f***ing pissed that my dad would say that *I* offended her.

I told my dad I wouldn't apologize, and when he told me to do so, I called my mom and then the police. I didn't tell my dad or my mom this, but I just wanted to place my stepmom in jail for the way she had been treating my dad.

What kind of text is better to send to an online friend?

I don't want my online friend to get annoyed of me so I don't text them everyday (I mean, we text on a social media now so they receive notifications on their phone whenever I text them).

Would an online friend get annoyed if I just text them "Hey, what's up?" or "How are you?"? I mean, would that just seem clingy?

Or would it be better to actually send them memes or cool stuff, etc. And then a conversation could develop after, y'know?

What should I do? I've recently started texting my online friend on a social media (after being friends for 8 months) but I sure don't want to seem clingy or annoying (since they can now receive push notifications for every message I send). I just wanna respect their boundaries (but I don't wanna ask if texting them every day or every 2 days would be too much because that would be a bit weird in my opinion) haha.